Agree with what you have been told.
I'm sexually active for as long as i can remember. The most i ever gotten, thankfully, was a UTI. I've had received unprotected oral quite a few times for years and thankfully nothing major. The fingering situation was the first time i ever did that so it's anew concern for me.
Can I get a second opinion from the others about my post?
Hi and welcome, You were not at risk with the fingering but were at risk even with protected intercourse for syphilis, herpes and HPV and low risk for gono and chlamydia for the unprotected oral.