Gonorrhea? OR IS IT?

[nicki222]

Hi I am a 26yr. old male.

I am now in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for 8 months who is 27. BEFORE MEETING HER I HAVE BEEN CELIBATE FOR ONE YEAR. After having our first intimate moment when together, we would perform oral sex, and unprotected sex. After a 1 week or 2, small reddish rash-like bumps would appear under the head of my penis(shaft). Initially I thought it was jock itch, but during that time period they would not go away and stay in the same locations with new ones popping up. My skin is sensitive and uncircumcised and thought it was an irritation from her braces. Few days later during those 2 weeks, I had a burning sensation when I urinate. And finally There was a whitish green discharge coming out of the head. I was petrified since nothing like this ever happened and not had sex for a year, just to see symptoms right after contact with this partner.

I called her and we both went to go tested together. My Doctor saw the issue and said the reddish bumps were jock itch. And the burning and discharge where sings of Gonorrhea. He then explained how I could of contracted it through the back of her throat and or vagina. He gave me a shot on my butt and prescribed a antibiotic (one time only pill). I was nervous and the doctor says there is nothing to worry about, it is treatable, and tell your girlfriend to get tested as well for Gonorrhea/Chlamydia. before and after this treatment my urine would be cloudy and smell awful. My genital areas would smell very moist and potent, usually would smell the sent of my partner on me (smelled kind of bacterial) I also had blood and urine tests that showed up negative. but how can it be negative since the doctor said i had Gonorrhea and puss came out of my penis?! I was very confused and upset because I loved her...

I told her and she denied that she had anything and been with me only, witch I believe her. But she denied that one can get it through oral sex and my case was just jock itch, blah blah blah... I was so furious at her thinking she had a very promiscuous past and was too embarrassed to tell me. Her test results showed up negative, and had to prove to me I was paranoid, She had blood and urine tests that all showed up negative too. She also had a treatment of a shot and a pill. This puzzled me. How can she be negative of anything if I had SYMPTOMS?!

After Treatment:
After the shot and pill, my discharge went away and reddish bumps went away too with application of anti fungus spray. Thinking that everything is fine now, we still have oral sex and unprotected/anal sex...

NO SYMPTOMS ACURED AFTER these treatments, however those reddish bumps would appear on the same locations. After vigorous oral sex, they would appear. and a day or two after would see a white dead skin coating covering them (moist since uncircumcised). And if i were to rub it, the white would go away and be red again. After not being sexual for a few days these red bumps would go away and I think its just an irritation from intense oral from here braces. Yet the doctor said these same bumps was jock itch. Confused? Burning would be here and there (not that hydrated) but nothing unusual like before. There would be no unusual smell either and penis looked fine again.


After the initial signs and treatment I am still with this woman for 8-months, and is very faithful with me. But before meeting me she must of been dirty and had multiple partners in order for me to get this! Why would she deny what I have and each time I mention it to her, she gets upset of me accusing her of anything. Then she would always say look at her results! they were negative! I still think that she was not honest about her past... I am thinking she must of known she had something before and treated it before it came up? I don't know?

Can you give me advise on this situation and please be as detailed as possible? I want to believe here but its difficult, some say how can you still be with her! She also had a pierce vagina and denies it was for sexual reasons, and says it is to claim herself as a woman cause she was raped, and needed personal pain. Does that make sense? She lives in a poor urban project area. She was also raped at a young age 13 and would tell me she would be jealous of other girls growing up of having boyfriends and was not pretty enough. I think she abused her body sexually due to low self esteem and no confidence so was desperate to be with any man. As a result took advantage of her sexually and resulted in giving me an infection due to her dirty past?

[auntiejessi]

OK lets calm down.

I find it interesting that you have now omitted your 11 partners, and now SHE has the promiscuous past.

But lets all just wait and see what the doctor says.

Aj

[Vance2335]

You tested negative for gonorrhea, are you that thick that you can't believe a test? Then myself and AJ give the exact same advice and you bash your girlfriend more and then question me telling me that I am treating this very lightly. I answered your question close to as good as you will get on the Dr form. After you get that answer I expect an apology from you and apologize to your girlfriend and hope she doesn't break up with you.

[nicki222]

I accidently wanted to send this to a doctors response...

Pathetic, well I think you are treating this very lightly. I appreciate your response... But I think i know her a little better than you, dont you think..

and its not a matter of taking sides... i just want to know for sure u no... NGU makes allot of sense...

but i am concerned... cause its happening to my body...

[Vance2335]

what are u doing? we answered this. now you post the same question and add a new paragraph. i normally would not go further but i feel like i have to be a voice for your girlfriend. why don't you bring her on here and show her what you wrote about her? This is pathetic.