glad you are getting the peace of mind you need :)
Just to close the loop on this thread: I received my 6 week syphilis test results today and they were negative (as gracefromHHP told me they would be).
I thought that it would be good to post this result so other people like me who are battling with guilt and spinning out elaborate what-if scenarios could see that the answers from the volunteers on this board really are something you should listen to.
Thanks again gracefromHHP for your patient and informative responses.
syphilis you need to wait at least 6 weeks. herpes is at least 3 months.
Just as a follow-up: what is the appropriate testing period?
Thanks for he quick response. I very much appreciate the time you spend helping people on the forum.
we recommend protected sexual contact because it works!!!
protected oral sex is as close to no risk as it gets. no reason for any worries or testing :)
as a fyi - 3 weeks post encounter is too early testing for both of those but no reason to repeat since this was essentially a no risk encounter.
grace