Question about infection after touching skin & vagina

[scr1979]

I'm going to get married this month. My bestman is giving me a bachelor party and arrange for me 20 min with window girl in amsterdam. I basically didn't do anything, I just seat on a bed, she giving me a little dance, she take my hands and directed my hands to her breast and vagina lip a few times. I have to rub her breast & vagina lip, the vagina lip is not wet but I can fill a little moist.

Further I just talked with the girl about different topics about her life & job, because she was such a nice/smart girl.

So no sexual intercourse whatsoever...

But I'm an easily paranoid person and also a germs-freak. So bare with me to ease my mind.

1. Q: I concerns with the vagina moist, because after I touch her I didn't have time to washed my hands after we got to the next bar. And before I get to the bar I have to go peeing and touch my penis(about 20 minutes after my last contact with the girl), but I touched my penis with my other finger(Not the finger that I had use to touch the girl vagina.). But I open up my boxer with my finger which I used to touched the girl vagina. I then washed my hands in the bar.

3 hours After that we go to the hotel, take a bath, and I sleep with the same old boxer that I touch with my fingers before I have time to washed my hands.
(sometimes when I'm a sleep I have tendency to touch my penis/scratching/change its position/etc and I have a just healed cut on my index finger that I used to touch the girl vagina which I always used waterproof band-aid except when I go to sleep.

- Is there any possibility that from my experienced she can transfered HIV?

- Is there any possibility If after a few minutes after touching the girl I accidentally touch my other skin area/mouth and get HIV infection?

- I read from the internet that the virus will die when exposed in open air, so I shouldn't have to be concerned right?

2. Q: Is there any possibility that she can transfered other STD's?

Please understand my concern because I Love my future wife very much and I don't want this experience ruins my future life.

[auntiejessi]

You are perfectly fine.  :)  Enjoy your wedding and your new life.  :)

Aj

[scr1979]

Hi thank you for your relieving answer.

Yes it is regulated in Ams...

So I'm perfectly fine and can have sex with my future wife right?

I'm just afraid & paranoid about this ruin my life. Because I've done nothing else except when she guide my finger to touch her vagina outer lip which have a little moist.

I already told my future wife the whole story and she just laugh and told me I'm just been worried to much about what happened at my bachelor party.

I even bought a HIV home test kit...

Thank you for your post...

[auntiejessi]

Hi there -

This isn't the doctor's forum, and Drs. Hook and HHH won't see this.

However, you are fine.

1 - Even if she had an std, you waited 20 min before touching yourself to use the bathroom.  There is no risk.  Anything would have died by then.  Sleeping in those boxers wouldn't have any risk either.

HIV isn't transmitted this way.  Her bodily fluids would have had to have gotten INSIDE your body, and that didn't happen.  

Also, isn't this regulated in Amsterdam?  If I am correct in this, this means the women are tested regularly, and use protection for anything that might be a risk.

2 - See above.  There is no risk at all here.  You do not need to be tested.

Aj

[scr1979]

Dr. Handsfield or Dr. Hook,

I forget to ask another question. Do I need to be test for STD's and HIV?