Update: I consulted my doctor tonight, and she said given the circumstances there is little or no risk as long as nothing shows up in 3-5 days no testing required since the events were protected and the Rubbing portion was so short lived . I did ask about an anti viral, and she explained even this would be overkill. Thanks again for your help
You don't think I could test sooner for piece of mind do you ?
When there is genital to genital contact where her vagina is making touching/grinding contact with a penis and genital area no testing would be recommend if no genital sores develop about 2 weeks later OR if they have a long term partner.
We dont know the exact amount of contact that was made, but only know it was made and this contact puts your wife at risk for Herpes, Syphilis and HPV.
In not saying this to worry you as can tell your quite upset about all of this. Genital herpes can be on the genital surface without any visible sores/blisters and its called shedding and sheds about 15-30% of the time. It would be recommended to test. But you can also see you doctor and ask his opinion if there is a risk for your wife.
Yes, the reasoning being if she did it with you most likely shes done it with many people. Its just a precaution
Hi, since your married you would need to test for herpes and syphilis for her protection. What your mentioning is low risk but any risk to your wife would require testing.
herpes---3 mopnths
syphilis----6 weeks