I am a 20 yr old bi male, and i have given eight guys oral sex. Out of those eight men only two of the men were unprotected oral sex and i didnt take any ejaculation in my mouth. I did anal sex with one of these men and it was protected no condom break or anything like that. But it seems like I just have not been feeling like normal. I had some pain behind my ears thought it was my wisdom tooth had them removed that went away. I had fatigue for about a week or two, scratchy throat, no fever, went to the doctor and he said i had a upper respiratory infection gave me some pills that went away. I then had muscle pains in my calfs and my wrists, that lasted for about a week then it went away.....I did test 30 days after my two unprotected oral sex exposures it came back negative. All these men say there negative, but u know how that goes.. I dont consider any of the other acts risky, because I used a condom EVERY time. And the one time I had anal sex it was protected. Now my underarms are hurting, but i went to the doctor and they are not swolllen, no lymph nodes are swollen but they are very uncomfortable, I thought I had a swollen gland in my neck but dr. said it wasnt, so what could be causin this underarm pain, any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.