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Scared to death, I'm such worrisome Guy...

I met this girl online didn't know her much, and we ended up having sex. However we had both vaginal intercourse and oral sex with a condom on. I had sex with her for about 20 minutes, and during that we had to change condom not because it broke because I felt it was slipping upwards to much because it was a trojan and it might have too big. So when I changed it I'm scared I might have caught something because I did touch the condom and it had her fluids on it, and I did change into a new condom with those same fingers that may have had her fluids on it.

Well I know I could not have caught HIV because my head was covered, but I'm really really really worried I got something else like HPV or herpes... please tell me my chance, I'm such nervous guy I hate it.. I'm so depressed. I regret it.

What are my chances for ANY std's, STI's. I don't think I could cope with any thing, I want to be clean like a baby.

She said she did not have herpes but I'm still scared because she did ride me and her thighs and buttocks were touching my thighs I didn't see no lesions though on her.

Also after I finshed ejaculating, the tip of my penis was very red what does that mean? Isn't it supposed to be pinkish.

Did I catch "anything", no unprotected vaginal or oral, however I am a little nervous because my pubes might have came in contact with her, and the condom doesn't go all the way down , and the bottom shaft of my penis might have been in contact with her vagina when I went all the way in.

what should I do? to stop stressing help me guys, I know this seems lame but I'm a scardy cat.
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736575 tn?1288902558
Most likely you did not get anything from this.  It was for all purposes protected sex.  I would not worry about you touching her fluid and inadvertently touching your penis with the same fingers. It is the act of sex itself that would transmit HPV or herpes.  The chances of you getting herpes using a condom without any visible blisters present is very small...much less than 50% I believe.  For much more accurate information on herpes, you would be better off posting in the Herpes forum since they are dedicated to the subject.
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But I used a condom, the though of having to wait 90 days for a check up makes my life miserable.

Do you think I caught something? Like I did use a condom I practised safe sex!

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1086863 tn?1278630315
test 90 days post exposure.
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