ok just got back from doctors. He said he thinks it is a bacterial infection (basically my mouth didn't accept someone else s bacterial very well)
he said he has seen herpes and looks nothing like this. Plus it is too early to show up. So he is 99% positive not herpes. He did a culture for chlamydia and gonorrhea, along with some other bacterial infections.
He said don't aggravate it, that's probably why it got so bad. (i was scrubbing tongue and mouth washing insanely) So no soda, mouthwash, spicy food, smoking, alcohol, etc.
He also said don't share chapstick. And use Vaseline.
He said everything should clear up completely by Monday at latest.
hope this might help some of you out. I feel so much more relieved.
Bumps can be many things, you would have to see a Dr. Most of the time they are not STD related.
Let me know what your doctor says. I've had had Fordyce bumps appear on my lip after oral sex, but every doctor I have seen says that it is nothing to worry about: no STD.