Help .
I am worried to death.
I have been married for 20 years have 3 children and have made a real mess of it.
I have been been attending body to body massages for the last 5 years. ( Now I have an attack of the guilts)
Do i have a STI -
I have only ever had massages with the occasional dose of oral sex with Condom. ( Never Vaginal Sex)
(q) What os the possibility of contracting Gonorrhea and or Chlamydia from this action - Noting that her vagina may or have been brushed my genital area and her tongue may have kissed the lower shaft of my penis( This is a big May be ) I have been cleared of HIV , Syphilis, HSV 1 and 2. 9 however have not done a urine test.
Can you tell me what are my chances of contracting anything.
I need - Statistics.
My anxiety is working overtime -
I have nil discharge ect - however every time I have sex with my wife i am overwhelmed with guilt. Doctors tell me that I do not need urine testing as i am asymptomatic.
I have self medicated myself with Azithromycin due to paranoia. no signs of STI however convinced myself I do.