gonorrhea from getting rimmed?

[5h25t6hm]

I am a married male and 8 days ago met up with a guy from an online site.  We engaged in a session where he performed oral sex and alot of rimming on me.

A few days after the session, my rectum has become very itchy and seems to feel "moist" most of the time.  I also have what seems to be open sores all around my rectum and up into the "upper crack" area.  If I wear white underwear, I get a faint golden color mark.

I do seem to have a sensitive rectum that can become easily irritated by excessive wiping after a bowel movement; I do get occasional streaks of blood on toilet paper and what feels like "raw" areas on the skin around the area.  However, this time it is much more severe and has what could be a secretion.

Is it possible to get gonorrhea or some other disease that could result in rectal itching and discharge from rimming?

Any thoughts would be appreciated.

[auntiejessi]

Actually, herpes doesn't bleed.  I would suspect hemmorhoids before I would herpes.

You should just get it checked.

AJ

[bkrick]

You definately have the right to be concerned. I would say that this is unlikely to be a gonorrhea infection. However, gonorrhea can be colonized in the pharynx (back of the throat) of people involved in certain sexual behaviors.

Your history is more consistant with a herpes infection. If your partner had oral herpes than anything that he touched with his mouth including your anus, your mouth if you kissed, even your genitals could be infected. The first exposure to herpes usually results in clusters of painful, itchy vesicles that typically appear 4-7 days after exposure. It could also involve discharge from your anus, fever, malaise, and enlarged lymph nodes. Even if these do go away, they are very likely to reoccur. Go to the doctor and get them looked at as soon as you can. Herpes can very easily be transmitted between partners. Please, PLEASE do whatever it takes to NOT pass this on to your wife.

~bk