herpes? yeast? prostate issue?

[helpmeplease000001]

I recently had oral sex from my girl friend of eight months. this is our first sexual experience. i later got some marks on my penis which a doctor diagnosed as a red **** from vigorous oral sex. possible skin irritation but nothing to be alarmed about but it has been persistent. my symptoms include:

- frequent urination at night
- not fully done peeing but it stops or not full urination
- redness; small red spots but i was told it was discoloration not herpes
- flaky skin on penis head
- muscle pain
- neck pain, almost like it is swollen
- groin pain - testicles & pelvis area
- clear discharge that sticks to my boxers almost like pre *** but is very little
- pain in penis that shifts sometimes left or right?
- other

i have been given different prognosis. its been persister over a month. my girlfriend has gotten checked out & had no prior infections. says things came back negative but i am skeptical. i know she has had cold sores before. i did however notice nothing to prevent me from allowing her to perform oral sex. i would love to get closure. i have yet to see a specialist. my GP wont give me a referral and stated a little discharge of semen is normal. my girlfriend has been faithful too my knowledge. i am a little worried now. its carried on over a month. the penis burning is uncomfortable. a doctor checked my prostate and says it is enlarged which could cause penis pain around the tip. a burning sensation though normal? what does this sound like? i got some cream for a yeast infection & fucidin. any help would be appreciated. i am looking into a referral for a specialist as this has been awhile. all tests including multiple swabs, urine, and physical examinations came back negative. i never had a herpes test though. only examinations and a couple of those at that. any help is appreciated. i haven't had puss, blisters, or itching. i notice with cream on i may get the odd itch but nothing out of the ordinary. thanks.

[auntiejessi]

Oral hpv is considered rare.  In all my time (15 years) in this field, I haven't seen a case of it.  If he is concerned, then he should see a doctor.

Aj

[helpmeplease000001]

http://www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/stdbasics/stdchart.asp

how probable is HPV from Oral sex? Q: a friend just started wigging out and he spoke with me. i told him to go get checked out. it could be likely from vigorous sex however he just said oral sex. its weird too cause so much **** can happen from some of the most innocent of actions. being Christian, i think i guilt tripped myself into a lot worse of things. they were checking me for cancer and other non-sense which made matters worse. as for doctors, i know there human however, they missed Cancer with a friend. its horrible so i guess getting multiple opinions is intelligent. thanks for everything and any additional advise for my friend. i told him to go to a walk in clinic if he is ashamed to see his family doctor but recommended his family doctor. hopefully he is alright.

[gracefromHHP]

You can contact medhelp and they can remove your account and all your posts if you'd like.

grace

[helpmeplease000001]

Thanks so much for everything. next Q: is there anything more i can do in regards to privacy? ways in changing usernames but keeping my account etc.? i just want to best mask this. i would never want this personal information to leak out into the public despite having been cleared of all things. thanks again for everything.

[auntiejessi]

Lumps can be many things, from normal to cancer.  Your doctor should see this.  Don't ever assume a doctor will notice things.  Some things that seem HUGE to you are very small, and might be missed during an exam.

I have even gotten a mirror and showed my doc exactly what spot I am talking about.  Don't hesitate to do that.

But I am glad you are feeling better, and are starting to enjoy things again.  :)

Aj

[helpmeplease000001]

to everyone that has commented here the past 3 + months at any point and time who have brought me peace of mind at one time or another, i would like to thank you. i seen my specialist, a urologist. he assured me it wasn't herpes and did a check on my prostate. he doesn't believe it is prostititus but he told me to finish my pills. i am on my last refill with maybe a week or so left. i am to follow through on that, they did some tests and will be in touch with me if anything is up. i was told to contact him if necessary. i celebrated a friend's birthday this weekend and went camping. i had a good time for the first time in ages. again, i am appreciative to everyone. i just had a Q: under the penis, i have a sorta lump. now, i know each males have different sorts of groves and or bumps for female pleasure during intercourse. my Q: is: how do they differ between that and cancer? also, if your physically examined, would they notice it right away? i just noticed some pain there. i wonder if it could be the combination of the excessive examinations, nerves, medication, and other. i was also urinating while camping so i am sure it could be the reason. again, thanks to everyone that helped me through a dark time. all the best.