Risk of STDs

[pindriver]

I am a male who on the 4/10/14 had protected intercourse with a female who I met from a dating site. This was our first date. Before the the intercourse, I received unprotected fellatio from her for a short period of time. Also I touched inside of her vagina then touched my penis with the same hand a good few times. She also touched my penis after touching her vagina.

I am just wondering what is my risk STD/HIV? Should I get tested on the 17/10/14 just to make sure (12-13 days later)?

I ask this question because I said to her couple days later that I wasn't interested in her. She turned nasty and told me that I needed to get myself tested ASAP. I don't understand why she said that as she claims she is clean. I am confused. In my head I am thinking I've got something even with no symptoms. I've never had a STD etc.

[pindriver]

This afternoon I decided to get a NHS Quick Test for Chlamydia/Gonorrhoea (urine), HIV/Syphilis (bloods) at a NHS GUM Clinic. Results will take between 2-14 days. I have no obvious symptoms except for a occasional dull ache around the left inguinal area of the groin/pubic area. The reason for the testing is the dull ache and I also believe she sleeps around with different men. I'm not sure if it was 100% required. You can not be to careful these days.

[Vance2335]

No testing.

[pindriver]

Thank you for your reply. What testing would you recommend for this encounter? Thanks again :)

[HowardH]

I don't see any cause for alarm. The important thing is that you had condom protected sex. There's almost always a certain amount of genital-genital and hand-genital skin contact during sex, and indirect exposure to partners' genital fluids. However, these fleeting contacts carry little or no risk. With rare exception, for STD bacteria and viruses to take hold and cause infection, they have to be deposited internally or massaged vigorously into the tissues. (That's why genital herpes and warts typically first show up at the sites of maximum friction during sex, like the head of the penis, shaft, and the vaginal opening and labia minora in women -- and not places like the scrotum, groin, pubic area, etc.)

Femail "ejaculation" is urine -- and urine is toxic to bacteria and viruses, and rarely transmits STDs.

Sounds to me like your partner was just lashing out, and her comment about testing probably doesn't mean she is infected. OTOH, I wasn't there and can't judge that as well as you can. If you remain in doubt, feel free to be tested, but honestly I see no need for it.

[pindriver]

Sorry I had sex on the 04/09/14, wrong date

[pindriver]

Forgot to add to last post - During sex, she ejaculated (gushed/squirted) all over my body a few times. It seemed at least a pint  every time she done it. Everywhere was soaked. I am not sure if STDs are present in female ejaculation.

I am sure she's trying to scare me by saying that to me. But its good to get advice on my risk on the forum.

Thanks :)