So I just found out I have NGU, not due to Chlamydia. I contracted this from an escort via oral sex. The unfortunate thing is, I had sex (unprotected but no ejaculations inside her) with my wife a few days after my indiscretion, which was before I had symptoms. I guess my question is, how likely is it that I have given her something? IS NGU not due to Chlamydia passed easily? I didn’t think STD’s were passed through oral sex but I was wrong, so I don’t know about probability of passing something on. Also, how soon would she symptoms. This is the worst thing I have done in my life. I have been married 20 years and I’m so depressed at this point, I can hardly function. Can anyone please help?