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[safe100]

Hello everyone

I'm looking for quality information please.

I'm gonna visit a sex worker today. I do want to be 100% sure I will not get an std, what activities I can do? Is: kissing a massage? No sex or oral sex, please help me

[safe100]

OK I won't test then, I shouldn't worry about this if there's zero risk, thanks

[Vance2335]

No risk because STD's have that name for a reason...require sex.

[safe100]

No risk because she had her underwear on and nothing would go thru clothing?

[Vance2335]

You had no risk. Meaning there is no way you could have gotten a STD. If you are guilty or anxious then seek a therapist for the anxiety issue.

[safe100]

I mean I didn't kiss her, if she was wetwould it have gone thru the clothing? I didn't touch her vagina just the ***, is there a chance aher hands were dirty from a previous customer?

[safe100]

Vance, thanks for your support, its too late, I shoulve listened to you, I already screwed up and I regret it.

I did kiss her, but I did touch her body, she had her underwear on. All the time,  I touched her body and then game myself a handjob. I didn't touch her vagina but I don't know if she was wet and it went past her underwear, I didn't feel it.

What should I test for and in how many days?

[Vance2335]

Depends on what you do, but only way to know 100% is to test. But we can't guide you until we know what you plan on doing.

I am getting a little deeper then normal but you may want to rethink this whole thing. If you don't want to your wife's health in jeopardy, then think about how hurt she would be if she found out you went to a woman and paid her to do things to you. Her emotional hurt would probably be more then anything you could give her.

[safe100]

Hi there, how many days should pass without syntoms for me to know I'm in the clear 100%,

Tganks

[shaken2core]

not sure what kind of foreplay you're talking about but, but rule of thumb is to be covered at all times whenever oral, vaginal, or anal is involved.  

[safe100]

Should I wear a condom for foreplay just in case?

[safe100]

I think some of them don't like it, not all, some of them do like what they do.

[safe100]

I also do have a wife that's why my rule is no sex, just maybe a lap dance, I don't wanna put her healthy at jeoperdy

[Vance2335]

No, kissing is not a risk.
Trust me if someone "likes" the work as a CSW they are lying.

[safe100]

Nono she's a CSW free lancing working from her apartment who she shares with a friend she says she likes the job she's not there against her will, now. She does oral sex without condoma, if she has oral gonorreah and we kiss could I get it?

[shaken2core]

I don't think he's going to get deep kissing and cuddling from a professional therapist.  But I do agree with you Vance, the world of sex workers can be an ugly world.  Not only may he be with a girl who is there against her will, his safety is also an issue as he may get mugged by a pimp, etc.  

Safe 100 - we are not here to judge you, but consider your own safety when going to visit sex workers, not only health wise.  

[Vance2335]

If you want a massage then go to a professional massage threapist. Not some illegal place where the woman might be there against her will.

[shaken2core]

what you're describing carries no risk.  If you do end up having any type of sex (oral, vaginal, or anal) it's always best to use a condom.  Even oral sex carries some risk.  Make sure the condoms are not old or expired and they have been properly stored in a cool dark place.  The only way to make sure is to bring your own condoms.  

[safe100]

I want a massage and see her body, I'm even scared of fingering, what is the risk for deep kissing and cuddlin and touching?

I don't think I would do something else

[Vance2335]

No sex, but what is the point of going to a sex worker if not for sex?