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I agreed with her to have sex without penetration because I was not protected.  she accepted .
what happened.
While rubbing the penis on the vagina, she grabbed the penis and tried to insert it, but it did not enter. I prevented her.  I'm sure of it because I will feel it and I don't want that .  I looked at my penis and it was directly on the vaginal opening.  But suppose it is inside the vaginal opening only .  What is the risk of transmitting HIV here?
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207091 tn?1337709493
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There is some risk for herpes, syphilis and HPV, but if it was brief contact, and not heavy rubbing or grinding, I wouldn't worry about it.
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It was a short contact and not heavy.  
When I saw her trying to insert my penis, I asked her to sleep on her stomach and I rubbed my penis on her ass until  ejaculated.
dear.  But if we assume, if the penis enters the vaginal opening, how dangerous is it for HIV?
That is not a realistic risk for HIV. You would need to insert your penis fully and have intercourse in order to be at risk for HIV.

Forget about HIV - you did not have a risk for HIV.
I am truly grateful to you all, since last Friday I have been suffering from hypochondria.  

now I think I need to rest a little.
But I also have to do tested for other STDS  to be safe
Test if you need to for your mental health, but expect them to be negative.

Then, going forward, don't have any kind of sexual activity with casual partners, and people who haven't already tested. That's okay - some of us can't do casual sex. I can't, for various reasons. There's nothing wrong with that.

Also, get some therapy for your anxiety. You'll be okay.
Dear CurfewX , yesterday I was thinking about what you said
( You would need to insert your penis fully and have intercourse )
so
1- What is the difference between placing the head of the penis inside the vaginal opening and complete insertion?  

2- Does this mean that penetration of the tip or head of the penis is safe?!  

3- Where are infectious fluids located in the vagina?  

4- Is only full penetration without intercourse considered not dangerous?!  

Please share this information with us so we can learn and stay informed about what is happening around us in the field of sexual protection

Also, if anyone has knowledge, please share it with us
I am not going through these questions one by one. The ways that HIV is transmitted are very straightforward, and there is no need to worry about all of these details.

For HIV transmission to happen, you would need to put your penis fully inside a vagina, and rub it vigorously, which is what happens during intercourse. HIV is not easily transmitted. It enters through the head of your penis and requires a lot of rubbing against vaginal or anal walls.

You DID NOT have intercourse. You didn't have a realistic risk for HIV. As auntiejessi said, test if you need to do so for peace of mind, but your result will be negative.
Since you did not have intercourse, you are not at risk for HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, hepatitis B, mycoplasma, ureaplasma and trich.

The ONLY possible risks here are herpes, HPV and syphilis, and because the contact was short and brief, the risk is very low. Herpes, HPV and syphilis are transmitted by direct skin to skin contact - when your genital skin comes into contact with someone else's genital skin. It doesn't require fluids.

However, it usually requires a lot of rubbing and grinding, and that takes time. Since this was brief, I wouldn't worry.

Transmitting syphilis requires contact with an actual sore. If a sore wasn't present, you can't get it.

Again, test for your mental health and peace of mind, but expect it all to be negative.
Two days ago I had a constant burning sensation in my penis.  I tested  urine and it showed cells
( pus cells 10-15)
Sorry it's 12 - 15 not 10 -15
That indicates an infection in your urine. It doesn't mean its an STD.

You need to get tested for STDs, though you can not get the kind of STDs that cause an infection in your urethra from what you describe here. You also need to get further urine testing to see what bacteria is causing this, perhaps a UTI.

See your doctor.
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That is not an STD test, and only an STD test can determine whether you have an STD.

Since this is an STD forum, our members are only able to assist with questions related to STD testing. Discuss the results of your urine culture with your doctor.
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