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Possible STD..? Pl help.
I had an encounter 6 days back, it was in a bar, had a private lap dance. We both were dressed, me with Jeans (no undies) and she with her g strings ON. She sat on my lap and was moving forward and backward. There were kissing (not french types) very very negligible and we both licked out nipples, no genetals touching. I did touch her vagina thru the panties, guess did not do it directly...Do I need to test for STD..? This lasted for 30 mts, I did not ejaculate, not sure about her, came home and took a hot shower. Not able to identify any visible symptoms though...Pls help.
People are all over the anxiety forum about irrational fear of getting HIV. I often tell them, if you have that much anxiety about it it's probably best to avoid professional sex workers. Very high risk people, so why trigger your fears this way? Also, she didn't ejaculate -- professional sex workers don't do that. They aren't really into it. They are pretending to get money from you, so you never have to worry about that.
There is no risk from this behavior. If even one of you were clothed, you'd be fine, but both were. The kissing is not a big deal nor the nipple licking and since your genitals never touched, you're good there too. I wouldn't concern yourself with this anymore.
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Thank you SkaterDave, much appreciated. I can be sure that I need not have concern on any STD right..? And no tests needed as well right?
From what you described, there isn't any risk of anything. What you're experiencing is the very, very common post-sexual-activity std fear. That's a real thing and you see very extreme cases of it on this forum if you hang out here. If you find you are having trouble getting past the fear and intrusive thoughts regarding your experience, then maybe get tested just to alleviate that fear, but know you'd only be doing so out of fear resolution and not real risk. You do not need testing. I want to be clear about that. Now go and have a happy new year free from dwelling on this. :)
Thanks a lot.. Will move on..
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