Worried after unprotected oral sex

[amber2000]

I feel very foolish and worried.  I had unprotected oral sex with a male friend who I know is promiscuous.  I know that only a few days earlier he had casual unprotected anal sex with a girl and yet I still went through with it.

I hadn't intended him to come in my mouth (but it happened very quickly and I pulled away as soon as I tasted the first of it). I don't have sores but suffer from bleeding gums fairly regularly.

I am very stressed out now that I may have caught oral Gonorrhea or HIV and don't know how to deal with this... How soon should I wait before being tested? I have been tested for stds just a few weeks ago, which was all clear but now I feel like a real idiot.  I've never considered getting tested for oral stds even though I don't have protected oral sex.  

I have just started seeing someone who I am very fond off and feel horrific at the thought that I may be about to pass on something to him in return.

I'm very upset and any advice would help

[Vance2335]

What you can get from oral sex:
Gonorrhea, herpes and syphilis.
It is uncommon to get a STD from oral sex but it is possible. testing times are Gonorrhea-1 week throat swab, herpes-4 months, syphilis-6 weeks.
Gonorrhea and herpes are the most common, but it is low risk.

Since you are worried I would get a throat swab done after 1 week to be sure. Hepes is possible but your friend would know if he has herpes so if he was given negative just a month ago I would not worry about that. And syphilis is rare in developed countries and unless he has sex with men I would not worry at all about that.

Something to remember and pass on to your friend...use condoms. He is going to get something if he keeps having unprotected sex.

[amber2000]

In addition, he also got the all clear about a month ago... but I have no idea what he could have picked up recently.

How likely is it that I could have picked something up?  He didn't *** fully in my mouth, but I'm still very very worried.