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Unprotected Oral Sex from Sexually Promiscuous Woman

I am a male who received unprotected oral 48 hours ago with a female who is known as the "town's bike". The woman that everyone has sex with, the analogy is the town bike that everyone gets a ride from. Prior to receiving oral sex from the female, I decided to deep clean my penis mainly the head and the opening using antibacterial wipes (kills 99.9 of harmful bacteria) which I then received the unprotected oral sex for approx 5 minutes. I decided to deep clean my penis head and opening again using antibacterial wipes (kills 99.9 of harmful bacteria) straight after oral sex prior to protected vagina sex which lasted for 5 minutes, I then removed the condom and again deep cleaned my penis head and opening using antibacterial wipes (kills 99.9 of harmful bacteria). I am showing no symptoms after 48 hours.

My 4 Questions -

1) Was I at risk from a STDs from the sexually promiscuous woman?
2) Is it worth getting tested? If so, what tests do you all recommend?
3) Do you all think using antibacterial wipes before and after oral sex reduces the risk of catching a STDs?
4) If I have no signs of STDs symptoms after 2 weeks, will I be safe and in the clear?

Thanks for your answers and hope you all have Merry Xmas,
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What symptom do u get in 1 week ago?
anxiety,  diarrhea, sleepness, and dry mouth?
I need your help
thx
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Thank you. I found another reassuring post by Edward W Hook, MD from 2014.

"As for your receipt of oral sex, receipt of oral sex is an inefficient way to acquire STIs.  Even among persons with many sex partners, oral infections are uncommon and for a number of biological factors too complex to go into here, the efficiency of transmission of infections through oral sex is lower than for penetrative genital-vaginal or –anal sex.  Of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhea and nongonococcal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted through oral sex; for all practical purposes, chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny.  If you had gotten gonorrhea or NGU you would have most likely developed symptoms of urethritis (penile infection) such as burring on urination or a penile discharge by now.  As I said above, even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not), most exposures do not lead to infection.  In your case, I would urge you not to worry. If you wish, you could go to your local STD clinic or health care provider to be tested at this time for gonorrhea and NGU.  I anticipate the if you do, the tests will be negative and personally, I would not even seek testing."
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Thank you. I found another reassuring post by Edward W Hook, MD from 2010.

The quoted figure for HIV risk, if one has oral sex with an infected partner is less than 1 in 10,000 and, in my estimation that is too high. Some experts state there is no risk at all from oral sex.  Neither of us on this site have ever seen or reading the medical literature of a convincing instance in which HIV was passed by oral sex.  

As for other STDs, oral sex is an inefficient way to transmit STDs.  Of the bacterial STDs only gonorrhoea and non gonococcal urethritis (NGU) are transmitted through oral sex; chlamydia is not and without an obvious sore or lesion on your partner’s mouth, the chances of syphilis and herpes is likewise tiny.   If you had gotten gonorrhoea or NGU you would have most likely developed symptoms of urethritis (penile infection) within 5-7 days after exposure.  Even if your partner had an STD (any STD and it is likely she did not), most exposures do not lead to infection.  In your case, your exposure was brief; I would urge you not to worry. If you must, you could go to your local STD clinic or health care provider to be tested at this time.
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Thank you. I found another reassuring post by H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D from 2011.

Gonorrhea almost always causes symptoms within a week, usually 2-5 days.  Almost all gonorrhea causes obvious symptoms, so at this point you can be quite sure you weren't infected.

NGU symptoms typically show up in 10-14 days and probably always within 3 weeks.  So it is unlikely you were infected with NGU, but you should wait another week to be sure.

Gonorrhea can be transmitted as soon as it is acquired, certainly within a day or two.  If you were infected and have been having sex with other partners, they are at risk.  But as discussed above, it is very unlikely you caught gonorrhea.

NGU acquired by oral sex may not be transmissible to sex partners at all.  We don't know the causes of NGU acquired by oral sex, but some cases may be caused by entirely normal oral bacteria that can cause urethral inflammation but likely would not be harmful in other persons' genital tracts.
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*Herpes symptoms appear between 4-7 days
*Gonorrhoea symptoms appear between 2-10 days
*NGU symptoms appear 2 days - 21 days
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Thank you. I found this post by H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D from 2010. It is very reassuring post.

"Unprotected fellatio can result basically in 3 STDs in men:  Herpes due to HSV-1, if the oral partner has an active case of oral herpes; gonorrhea, which is uncommon but certainly happens; nongonococcal urethritis (NGU), which sometimes may be due not to an STD per se but to entirely normal oral bacteria.  Of these, NGU is probably the most common; herpes and gonorrhea are rare.  Chlamydia, HSV-2, and HPV are rarely if ever transmitted by oral sex.  And syphilis is so rare anyway that it's not a serious consideration.  There probably have been zero syphilis cases transmitted by kissing in the past few years (in the US)."
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More likely not to get it then get it
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Thank you Vance2335

Question - When you say low risk, you mean low risk as in likely to be safe without problems?

Merry Xmas
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1) If oral was unprotected then any woman is a risk, low risk
2) No
3) No
4) Probably
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