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Blowwjob

Even if i dont like to do blowwjob but still i have always done it for my bf's happiness.but these days,he is forcing on me everyday.from the last month i m doing it everyday for him.he used to jerk it off around my breast finally.
but these days over the face and in mouth.i have also puked sometimes but do swallow.i have always a fear of losing him so i never refused him,but personally i dont like it all over the face and that too swallowing.give some suggestions to stop him from getting so vigorous.
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80052 tn?1550343332
I fully agree with iam1butterfly - it is abuse plain and simple!  sometimes porn flics give some good ideas, but in this case (ejaculating on a womans face) is disgusting and gross.  Semen is designed to go into the vagina (or condom) - not into your mouth! Yes - re-evaluate what this guy thinks of you!  Does he love you, or you are just one of his `toys'
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The oral sex, in itself, is a matter of personal preference... and, it's clearly not for everyone.

However, the underlying and disturbing issue, here, is the fact that your boyfriend is "forcing" you to submit to an act that you obviously dislike... that falls under the definition of abuse.... and, that's not what a healthy relationship (sexual or otherwise) is about. I suggest that you say, "no" to oral sex... all oral sex... because it sounds as though your boyfriend likes pushing the limits. And, if he can't or won't accept "no" for an answer... then you'll need to re-evaluate the the direction of your future involvement with him.
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I agree 100% with Vance here.  He (author's bf) is not a porn star and you are not a porn star.  You have every right to tell him what you do and do not want to do and if he doesn't like it, show him the door.

You deserve far more respect than this.


Jim
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Look at what this guy is doing to her, he has no respect for her. He uses her like a sex toy. Respect needs to be there if it is not then the relationship is not worth having.
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Leave him, it is not part of oral sex to ejaculate on someones face unless that person asks for it. He does not respect you and is treating you like a sex object.
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we do sexx,but mostly he asks me for orral.i dont like the taste at all.i adjust when he throws on breast.but,it becomes irrestible on face.he even makes me swallow.i have tried to talk to him but he tells that i ll like it after somedays.ya i had a doubt?after blowwjob,is it necessary to pisss all over me,he said that its a part of blowwjob,please help.
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we do sexx,but mostly he asks me for orral.i dont like the taste at all.i adjust when he throws on breast.but,it becomes irrestible on face.he even makes me swallow.i have tried to talk to him but he tells that i ll like it after somedays.ya i had a doubt?after blowwjob,is it necessary to **** all over me,he said that its a part of blowwjob,please help.
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what makes it so sweet, my partners tastes awful even the smell is vile, ive heard if you eat plenty oily fish and veg it makes it better, i suggested that he eats more healthy because he eats so much junk then ill catch it but not when it tastes like that it makes me eve,  how daft of him to refuse eating more healthy hes lost out lol :)
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Have you ever told him how you don't like doing what you/him do? If not then you have to tell him, you don't want to do it every day, you don't want him to finish on your face. If you do tell him but he still does it then leave him, he would be showing no respect for you.
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hi daisy, i used to have the same problem with my boyf,

i didnt like it at first but i wanted  to do it so i got used to it when I felt ready, i dn not like the taste at all so i dont catch it, it goes elsewhere, its something i could never get used to its so vile ?

he'd never force anything like that though, we'd do it when i felt i wanted.  If you dont like it then you dont like it, you can try get used to it but you dont have to do anything you dont want.

tell him to stop making you do it its not right, does he do anything for you? i mean like do you have sex or is it just ** all the time?
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my suggestion is dont do it if u dont feel comftorable with it why would he force u n e ways my opinion feels better when the partner does it cause she wants to not being forced to i was with my x 2 yrs nd  askef her if she would give me a **  she said no she would never do it and so never brought i t up again for those 2 yrs and now about a month ago (no longer together she gave me 1 nd i wass omg   days after i askered why she changed her mind she said idk i just want to make u happy well it feels better when one wants to do it n not forced to so dont do ut if he forces u 2
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