Can anyone help me?

[S26]

I have been married for 3 yrs.We r planning to have kids.Now my problem is untill now I can have orgasm only when my husband mastrubate me with his penis.And don't have orgasm when he intercourse with me.So I am lil worried as how it works to get pregnant?Can any one suggest me anything?

Thanks in Regards

[clara1984]

Its not weird so dont worry. Sounds to me you can only orgasm from clit and vaginal rubbing! thats normal, i can only orgasm if i have contact with my clit!  Perhaps you and your partner should discuss this together, its not wrong and if your in a loving relationship can be a loving and sharing moment, makes you united ... so to speak.

As i mentioned on another thread, the clit and gspot become larger the more you orgasm so maybe some more foreplay will make your clit larger and will engage more contact during intercourse and obviously your gspot will get more contact too.

Maybe introduce toys into your love life, if suitable and both agree of course. A penis ring with a brush attachment might be good as it has little brushes on it that will stimulate the outside skin, which you seem to enjoy. You might enjoy a clit stimulator as well, the vibrations are ideal for external stimuli!

If not maybe a mint lube on the outside as it will make your skin sensitive and tingle - only use small amounts first as too much might burn your skin. It wont affect your chances of conceiving either.

Also a book of different positions or maybe watching some porn for ideas on the different things you might try. Theres loads of small and very short clips on the internet that arent too offensive and some books are very pretty. Also makes good couple watching and reading :)

Hope this helps and good luck

[S26]

Thanks Catie & Clara for ur advices.
My husband rubs me with his penis on my vagina and I get Orgasm.Then he intercourse in to me and he'll have orgasm.May it sound weird but this is how we do the sex.I don't feel anything when he intercourse in to me.I was virgin untill my marriage and from day1 in my marriage we do the sex like this.I am really not comfortable to talk regarding this in-person.So I never asked anything to my gyn also.
So Clara can u suggest me anything?

[clara1984]

You will get pregnant if you dont orgasm no worries there, he just needs to ejaculate in or even in some cases near your vagina! Even over can do the trick sometimes if the sperm is super active! But is their a particular reason why you dont enjoy intercourse? because just a simple change could do wonders for you. How exactly does he masturbate you? sorry, im having diffculty understanding how and i might be able to find something in one of my books as a suggestion! :), then the whole making a baby together will be a little more special then just a procedure :)