Cant *** =(

[kariA]

Hello, I'm 22 years old I have been dating my boyfriend for 1 year 3 months we have a problem I have only been able to *** 2 times since I been with him, he pleases me very good giving me oral sex, we try every position there is, he's got a pretty good size 8 1/2 inches but I just can't *** with him =( this is really frustrating for both of us we're both really sexual active he never says no to me and nither do I but lately he's been feeling really bad about that. I've never had this problem before and he says he has never this problem making a girl ***.. My question is what can we do? Or is there something wrong with me?? I had 2 abortion in  2009 and another one in May 1,2010 could that be why I'm having this problem now also we have been having unprotected sex for about a year now and I have not gotten pregnant I believe I can't consive anymore because I've had so many abortions.. Can some one help me we love each other so much but my boyfriend is really frusterated about me not being able to orgasm he thinks he's the one that has the problem and  I believe that its me =( can some one help me
Thanks, Karina

[Dalubaba]

Take treatment if there are any gynecological issues. You may do adjunct therapy by doing deer exercise for woman. Deer exercise includes kegel exercise as well. goole both the exercises and do them as instructed. I am sure it will help you in many ways.

[PainOfLife]

Karina, I understand your frustration. For clarification, have you had an orgasm besides those two with him in the last year and a quarter? Have you had success while masturbating on your own?

The trigger could be emotional. Sometimes when everything is in place physically, certain emotional states can make it impossible to orgasm, and that's something that would take a good deal of calm reflection to "fix." If it is physical, keep in mind that as your body goes through experiences like abortions, etc, your sexual needs may also change somewhat. This can even happen on its own as time passes. You may have a sensitive spot that you rely on for so many years and then one day it may have moved. You may think it's gone, but it'll just take time and patience to find alternatives.

Hope this helps.