Changing things up a bit.

[SpieluhrsMelodie]

Would anyone be able to help me with different things to do in bed, you know to keep thinks new and exciting for my boyfriend? Things are starting to feel a little dull and any ideas would be appreciated!
Thank you!

[gagootza]

yes i have a good one.ask your husband in a very sensual way to suck on your toes he needs to get them real wet then take his tongue and roll it over around and in between each one.wrap one hand around the bottom of the arch and the other over the top and twist in oppisite directions while he's sucking.within minutes you will be dripping like a water faucet and begging him to give it to you.i hope this works for you.it hasn't failed yet.i'd like to know if it worked but if not i hope i was of some help to you and your husband

[ee28413]

A recipe for making sex interesting: talk about it, explore, enjoy yourself and do it often.  

But do allow me to add, I think you should be careful with the attitude, it's superficial and ignorant to say the least.  You are hardly an adult when you cannot take the time to hear what a person expressing and then proceed to tell them to "get over themselves".  With some thoughtfulness you would have found it to be they were only looking out for someone who they perceived to be a child.

[keephope558]

having your own place is excting and fun! that is my best suggestion

[SpieluhrsMelodie]

well we are both almost twenty, and work and go to school so its hard to get our own place and we aren't ready to move in together yet. it isn't that we're bored with our sex life and it isn't dull because we have a very healthy, great sex life, just would like to add and do some new things with it, thats quite fine in my eyes, we are not children thank you. People do have fetishes with toys and other things i know a boy my age who as all sorts of fetishes that involve toys, so whatever. Both of our parents know we have sex, its just not something we talk about with them. So get over yourself please, doing different things is always exciting and fun, and thats all i was asking ideas for.

[keephope558]

yea patt...i agree. my advice to them is to turn 18 and get their own place hehe

[patt37]

Am I the only one that thinks that it is a little strange to be advising children to use sex toys to liven up their sex lives?  For heavens sake...if things are getting dull with your partner and you are still a teenager sneaking around behind your parent's backs then the problem isn't the sex but who you're having sex with.  Clearly, if you are bored at this point in your life, you are with the wrong person.  Also...if you need sex toys in your teens to make sex interesting, I'd hate to think what you will need in your 40's!

[jml1986]

I would still suggest toys. There are so many things out there that are meant to enhance a sex life, that it is a shame that more people don't use them. I have been married for 26 years and I can tell you that my husband and I still continue to find new ways to keep the spark going.

[SpieluhrsMelodie]

Okay, well, thank you and we have done that, it is a little bit harder because we are teenagers still both living with our parents. When the 'rents aren't home we go to town in the showers, pools, our own beds, chairs.. counter tops.. any thing we can and sometimes our friends even let us use parts of their houses... we are each others firsts, but that was about a year and a half ago..... anyone else?

[jml1986]

My first suggestion would be to move things out of the bed. Sex in other places can be a big turn on. Try the tub, the stairs, the couch, any place you can think of would be fun. Second try using toys. There are a variety of toys out there that can make for a great time. Sexy clothing, role playing, bondage, there is just a world of things out there to spice up your sex life if you are both welling to do it. However my biggest suggestion is always take about what turns you on and different things you want to try. Most people get into a routine because they stop talking.