Chinese male...need tip for first time and Masturbation

[scareddental]

Hello, Im an 16 years old Chinese male, I masturbated for about two years, and it's pretty frequent, about once every week. I look a little too darkish compare to my class mates and I think it's that i masturbated too much. What can I do to control it?

Also, I notice that Asian male typically had smaller penis size than caucasians, mines about 12~15 cm when erected. I had trouble at masturbation, typically about 2~3 minutes then I will finish. I am worrying about my future sex life, does it relate to future sex time??

And, I'm phimosis, which my foreskin covers my whole penis even erected, what should I do about it? Does it, how to say, stop my penis from growing? What should I do about it? How do i adress it to my parents about my foreskin if it's necessary to circumcised ?

[NOHARD]

Hi ScaredOK if your just masturbating a couple of times a week, this keeps our systems ticking over. if your masturbating everyday thne your on the edge, if your doing it twice and more, your will be heading for trouble.
Masturbating to porn will only lead to porn enduced ED, and by doing that you could also shut down your sexual recepters, more trouble.
So if your masturbating to porn then stop, porn does have a place, its great if you and a g/f are watching together, that way you can have some great evenings together sexwise that is, and if your not watching the bad ones, educating as well, for both of you, will give you both some good ideas.
So to answer your question if you must, just masturbate.
Good Luck

[scareddental]

NOHARD, I had another question. Is there a difference between masturbation while watching porno/pictures and just masturbation? What's the difference? Which one has less effect to you, in a health and future perspective.

[NOHARD]

Hi Scared Its called a wet dream, we all have them or have had them, some guys get them daily and so on till we get older, till we start having sex on a regular basis, but even then you may get the od one, its OK your just normal.
Good Luck

[scareddental]

Hey NOHARD, i have a problem now. I haven't masturbate for almost a week. Just last night, I dreamed I am having sex with a hot hooker and I ejaculated. When I woke up, I found myself really ejaculated. What should I do?

[NOHARD]

Hi Scared, 2 times a week is about right, but if it was 2 times a day then you would be having a problem, but 2 times a week is just keeping your system ticking over nicely. and I dont think this would affect your skin colour, thats down to your genes, and as your should know that is through our parents to how we turn out, skin colour, heigth, hair colour, every thing like that is from them and not masturbating, if somebody is telling you that its just an old wives tail.
One thing to remember is this, what is done by the hand, is rememdered by the brain, masturbating is nothing like sex, as you will find out one day.
Good Luck

[scareddental]

About every week per time or two, sometimes happens within a day.

[NOHARD]

Hi Scared, You said, Is it the frequent masturbations fault? So how many times a dat are you masturbating then, if your over masturbating, and if your masturbating to porn, then your heading for an even bigger problem, you know if you wont real help tell me now just what you are doing?
Please come back to me.

[scareddental]

Sometimes it concerns me because most of the time now i only need a minute to finish. Is it the frequent masturbations fault?

[scareddental]

So does masturbation time relate to actual sex time? Should i circumcised it?

[NOHARD]

Hi Scared, Lets start with your foreskin, your f/s should beable to be pulled back over the head of your penis, you need to be able to do this so you can clean behind it daily, keeps it healthy, if your having trouble doing that you should start steaching it length ways and sideways, gentle pulling it, do this till it free to go backwards and forwards easily, a small amount of baby oil we help as well.
Mastur bating is good for men, but if you over masturbate you will be doing more harm than good, and it will lead to problems, when you masturbate you say you only lasting 3 minutes, thats a bit quick, you need to do some edging, it an exercise to help you last longer, for this just google pegym, and on there just look for the page on edging, but you could try cutting back to twice a week, this will keep you system ticking over.
Good Luck