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Don't want to have sex

My girlfriend and I have been dating over a year now, were lesbians, well we started having sex three months into our relationship I wanted it but she would get there to give it to me I didn't want it after that she doesn't keep me interested or keeps me "wet" I dry up very quick. I don't know what's wrong now during sex I just give it to her. It's frustrating because she feels it, I don't. I feel in a seine a bit awkward. After or during I never get to a climax. I honesty doing understand what's wrong.. I want to feel it, but I feel it more when masterbating and I don't want it that way. I did get into a car accident that I suffered a major brain injury a last year and it was at the 3rd month or our relationship. Do you think that's the case why I don't find it a factor that I can't enjoy sex. Even thou I want it.. And now it's been so frustrating that I can't feel it so I don't let her even though me. What's your input on this situation.?  
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Hi Katie, for your dryness try taken some vitamin B6, you should find this helps, but in the mean time try some kind of oil as a lubricant, there is a good site you may find very intresting, just googel dobson and ross, you may find some of your answers over climaxing and ways to do it.
The car accident proberly did not help, do you think that you are back to your old self, you can only use them as markers to you health now and sexual health now.
Do hope this helps.
Good Luck
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If you feel it more when your by yourself then your most likely not that sexually attracted to her. I dont believe its the way shes touching you as you most likely would have said something to her during your moments You are pleasing her for some other reason. In my experience when im sexually attracted to a person, its gung hoe.
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