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HE SAYS MY VAGINA IS LOOSE...HELP!
Hello,
I have been with my bf for 10 months and for the last 3 he has been complaining about my vagina being loose and says that it was not like that before. because of this he believes that i have been cheating. I have one child, 7 years old by CS, not vaginal and have had no complaints before him. He is large, so his size is not the issue and the harassment is becoming abusive because he believes that i am cheating and says that hsi dad told him a woman is always supposed to fit around her man's penis. He also says that he has never been with a woman that felt like this before and it wasn't like this in the beginning or he would not have made me his girlfriend. I have tried everything from kegels to creams and nothing works he still hates sex with me he even throws up sometimes afterwards. This hurts me so bad because I love him so much. Are there any medical reasons that could have made my vagina slack over the last 3 months?
I have been with my bf for 10 months and for the last 3 he has been complaining about my vagina being loose and says that it was not like that before. because of this he believes that i have been cheating. I have one child, 7 years old by CS, not vaginal and have had no complaints before him. He is large, so his size is not the issue and the harassment is becoming abusive because he believes that i am cheating and says that hsi dad told him a woman is always supposed to fit around her man's penis. He also says that he has never been with a woman that felt like this before and it wasn't like this in the beginning or he would not have made me his girlfriend. I have tried everything from kegels to creams and nothing works he still hates sex with me he even throws up sometimes afterwards. This hurts me so bad because I love him so much. Are there any medical reasons that could have made my vagina slack over the last 3 months?
Throwing up after sex because of a loose vagina... what kind of crazy BS is that?
Maybe he has something loose in his brains. But, since you ask, there is a procedure where one can be surgically stitched in order to tighten up the vagina. But, this guy isn't worth the effort.
Maybe he has something loose in his brains. But, since you ask, there is a procedure where one can be surgically stitched in order to tighten up the vagina. But, this guy isn't worth the effort.
I agree with previous posts and I would say that his complaints have nothing to do with you or with your vagina, his verbal offenses are a reflection of his own sexual problems (he can blame you for his own problems), or they are just excuses and what is more dangerous they are a form of humiliating and degrading you as a person and as a sexual partner. If I were you, I would look for someone else as a sexual partner who would appreciate you and who would base his sexual life with you on a natural attraction to you more than on his silly prejudices "inherited" from his almighty father.
I would say good bye! A relationship is about so much more than just sex and if all your bf can do is complain then I'd say goodbye. there's nothing you can do to change your size. Maybe he shrunk! lol I'd say your bf has issues.
Are you sure he's not just looking for an excuse to end the relationship,also IMO if he literally throws up after having sex with you he's got a problem,maybe he's been sexually abused at some time or maybe he's gay and is in denial,who knows but you need to talk with him,even if say you had a large vagina I don't see how that would make someone throw up.Good Luck Denise
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