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I have been having sex for 3 years and have never had any kind of pleasure from it.. ever. I don't even enjoy oral. It just doesn't work. It's really getting to me. I try and try but nothing. I can get myself off but it only lasts 3 seconds and I have to work extremely hard to get there. It only works if my legs are crossed as well. What's wrong with me?? Help please!
Yeah I have been to a doctor but he just kinda blew me off. Nope. Never had any pleasure
There is nothing wrong with you! The mere fact that you have an orgasm through masturbation means that you have the ability for pleasure. Furthermore, it's normal for your body not to have an orgasm during your early years of sexual experiences. There's many women who don't even know what an orgasm feels like through sex or masturbation, so you my friend are lucky! Here's a couple of suggestions: When masturbating, remember the area and spot that brings the most pleasure, then teach this area to your sexual partner. It may take a *few* times for both your bodies to find the rhythm, pressure points (same as when you cross your legs), the position (try laying sideways), and that spot. It may be that you need both penetration and a hands-on experience. Having the same sexual partner is key here. Secondly, don't get frustrated. Frustration during sex will only take your mind off the actual activity that can bring you pleasure and affect your partner's performance. Instead, think about why you enjoy having sex and all the various effects of sexual arousal. Good luck!
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