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Pain during sex
Hi everyone,
I started having sex in September of last year and after the initial pain everything was fine. Had sex twice then. Then there was a gap of a few months and I attempted having sex again with my boyfriend at the end of December. However, once he reached a certain point (about three inches in) I had an unbearable pain and after trying a little longer had to ask him to stop. This has happened again this February when we tried again. To me, it feels like he's hitting some sort of barrier which is very painful. It's not my hymen because I've had sex twice before and it wouldn't be three inches in. So I'm not sure what it is. I'm adequately aroused, wet and I want to have sex, the pain is just preventing it. He feels like there's no 'barrier' and he could easily go further. We had a similar problem with two fingers, though one finger was fine. There's no pain at all in the first three inches, just when he reaches that point.
Any ideas? I'm going to see a gynaecologist on Thursday.
Thank-you
I started having sex in September of last year and after the initial pain everything was fine. Had sex twice then. Then there was a gap of a few months and I attempted having sex again with my boyfriend at the end of December. However, once he reached a certain point (about three inches in) I had an unbearable pain and after trying a little longer had to ask him to stop. This has happened again this February when we tried again. To me, it feels like he's hitting some sort of barrier which is very painful. It's not my hymen because I've had sex twice before and it wouldn't be three inches in. So I'm not sure what it is. I'm adequately aroused, wet and I want to have sex, the pain is just preventing it. He feels like there's no 'barrier' and he could easily go further. We had a similar problem with two fingers, though one finger was fine. There's no pain at all in the first three inches, just when he reaches that point.
Any ideas? I'm going to see a gynaecologist on Thursday.
Thank-you
Take more time before having sex, my gal had same problem before n still do if this solution's not followed
Take more time before having sex, my gal had same problem before n still do if this solution's not followed
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