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Intercourse Problem
I am married for 2.5yrs for now and We still have not done sex (Intercourse) . Initially we tried but i was scared about pain. We tried number of time but failed coz of me not lubricating and my virgaine was dry. as a result we never did and thing. But now i am scared and wante to over come my fear of pain and wanted to start my family. What can i do to over come this and also i can lubricate, should feel lust for sex.
I wanted to know that i actually pains a lot or i am just thinking too much...
Please help and advice what should i do to satisfy my husband and myself.
Regards.
I wanted to know that i actually pains a lot or i am just thinking too much...
Please help and advice what should i do to satisfy my husband and myself.
Regards.
Hi there.
I sugges that when you are alone or if you and your husband want to try sex then explore your genital area to find out what feels right to you. massaging the clitoris will stimulate it and trigger sexual arousal and then your vagina should start to produce lubrication. you can also get your partner to help and really just explore each other and find out what feels pleasurable.
If you cant get well lubricated then try a synthetic one, they work just as well as the natural stuff and can make it easier to have sex.
But most importantly, relax. if your are afraid of it hurting then your vaginal muscles will tighten up, making it almost impossible for penetration, therefore it will hurt. take deep breaths and remember foreplay is a good way to get your body physically and mentally in the mood for sex.
It you and your husband talk about it and take it easy then you should be fine.
Hope this helped and good luck! x
I sugges that when you are alone or if you and your husband want to try sex then explore your genital area to find out what feels right to you. massaging the clitoris will stimulate it and trigger sexual arousal and then your vagina should start to produce lubrication. you can also get your partner to help and really just explore each other and find out what feels pleasurable.
If you cant get well lubricated then try a synthetic one, they work just as well as the natural stuff and can make it easier to have sex.
But most importantly, relax. if your are afraid of it hurting then your vaginal muscles will tighten up, making it almost impossible for penetration, therefore it will hurt. take deep breaths and remember foreplay is a good way to get your body physically and mentally in the mood for sex.
It you and your husband talk about it and take it easy then you should be fine.
Hope this helped and good luck! x
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