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1882274 tn?1320823570

Need the big O

Is there a female tablet out there that can help me orgasim.... With loving husband who try's everything and never gives up on me to make me reach that big moment but it dosent happen .... Had teething problems with sex due to a bad previous relationship and now 10 years later feel
like its time to stop sulking and get on with it and start enjoying it only it's been that long I think my brains forgot what signals to send and nothing works .... Even consider taking drugs to relax me but im to much of a scaredy cat ha PLEASE HELP x
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1882274 tn?1320823570
Hi and thanks for your response ....i've tired myself to see if i can work out what i like but it doesn't work either, i have had clitoral orgasm before which i think my husband enjoyed more than me because he finally made me work but this doesn't happen often unless we have been on a night out and I've got a bit tipsy, feel really stupid but long for the orgasm that we can both have together and its more for my husband sake because he try's so hard with me and never pushes me even if its been months since our last play around.. Is there really no magic pill x    
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1831637 tn?1323264454
This sounds to me to be much more of a psychological issue rather than a physical barrier stopping you from reaching orgasm.

It is very common for this to happen and could well have been liked to your bad previous relationship you mentioned.

What I would suggest, it different sexual positions.  You really need to get yourself in the mood.  Tell you husband what you like and how you like it.

Do you have any problem reaching orgasm manually by yourself? And are these orgasms clitoral or g-spot orgasms? or both?

Hope this helps

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