thank you. I have tested recently and have been negative so far (knocks on wood/prays) I appreciate all of the responses and these past few months have not been too good for me.
Be careful theres a lot of bad stuff out there like herpies. If the guy had it thier would be sores on his penis and it would look wrong if it was out of control.
When I give head to new partners I use a condom. If I know them and thier thier friends I dont bother or wory about it.
As far as your anus and vagna thier not conected to your mouth.
Go to a clinic and get tested for STD s and relax.
Stop being sexualy adventurus if your going to wory about it.
Get a regular partner and be adventurus with confedence and have fun.
thank you for your response. on the HIV prevention forum it says oral sex in any matter what so ever poses no risk....I know this is very hard to believe because its hard for me to believe too but that is what they say...
ok here's what seeing that you haven't had any sexual contact with this person from your vagina or rectum then you wouldn't have any problem in those areas.However you mentioned no ejaculation you know that viruses are transmitted through fluid so his precum or so can pose a treat in those areas any open sores, cold sores, etc.in the mouth can be a route by which the virus or bacteria can enter the bloodstream and infect. For the insertive partner there is a theoretical risk of infection because infected blood from a partner's bleeding gums or an open sore could come in contact with a scratch, cut, or sore on the penis.Although the risk is many times smaller than anal or vaginal sex, HIV has been transmitted to receptive partners through oral sex ("blow jobs"), even in cases when insertive partners didn't ejaculate (***).
I dont mean to scare you or anything just be really careful ok sam.
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