Sex While Asleep

[ApatheticExtremist]

I've recently found out that I talk, walk, and do a variety of other things in my sleep. My girlfriend was massaging my neck while I was with her and I fell asleep. While I was asleep I touched her, kissed her, and tried to be with her. She ended up hurting me to wake me up. We love each other and I would never want to hurt her, but while asleep I have gotten rough with her when she tried to stop me. I occasionally fall asleep when I'm with her and am afraid of forcing her to do something before she is ready or her family or friends seeing me touching her when we aren't married yet. Both of us believe that we shouldn't have sex until we are married but when I fall asleep I think we already are married.

[ApatheticExtremist]

How can I make sure she is safe if I do something in my sleep?

[Dalubaba]

Sleep walking has to be treated, otherwise it will be dangerous to self and others. The problem is not remain confined between both of you only.

[jefelex]

That is serious!!  make sure she keeps the keys at night time! I don't know if there is any treatment for that kind of sleep walking or sleep functioning - do you have problems while you are at work falling asleep while you are working?

I would go to a sleep doctor and see if there is some natural way you can sleep better or more soundly!

[ApatheticExtremist]

I also drive when I'm asleep. She tested me when I fell asleep to see what I would do. I walked to the car, opened the door, buckled up, and started the car. She took my keys and hid them. I woke up in my car and she told me what happened. I don't know what I should do or what I can do for that matter.

[ApatheticExtremist]

When I'm asleep, in my mind we've been married for years. I tell her about our lives, our children, the way I feel about her, she wants to be married and we just need to wait for a little while until I can afford to support her. She loves to talk to me when I'm asleep but can't control me if I try to do things with her. For a while I focused mentally on thinking that I had hurt her before I fell asleep and she said that it worked, when I fell asleep I didn't want sex because I was afraid to hurt her. Now she feels bad because I'm making myself feel guilty for something that happens when I'm asleep.