Google Male Deer exercise and female deer exercise. It can be used as a foreplay, helping each other to do the exercise. You both may learn kegel exercise and kegel each other to enhance your sexual pleasure. If you can learn taoist yoga and kundalini yoga, you can becomes masters in sexual maneuverings A book '100 days practice to have long life, and good sex by DrEricson steven Yydelove. There may be some error in the book's title and the author's name. Google it and find out correct names.
Just letting you know that the porn is going for good. He was really great about the whole thing and said that he would rather be able to please me and have better sex than have the porn and masturbating all the time. Thankyou for your advice, I've already done copious amounts of reading, some of it I think will make our relationship a whole lot better and hopefully make it last a long while. I didn't realise how much porn could affect our relationship. I'm so thankful for your advice.
Just letting you know that the porn is going for good. He was really great about the whole thing and said that he would rather be able to please me and have better sex than have the porn and masturbating all the time. Thankyou for your advice, I've already done copious amounts of reading, some of it I think will make our relationship a whole lot better and hopefully make it last a long while. I didn't realise how much porn could affect our relationship. I'm so thankful for your advice.
Thankyou!! This really helps. But any tips on how to have the conversation with him where I ask him to stop it for a while. I mean sex will be easy to talk about, but how can I convince him to stop masturbating and watching porn, especially for 8 weeks, that might be a bit hard for a guy right?
Thankyou!! This really helps. But any tips on how to have the conversation with him where I ask him to stop it for a while. I mean sex will be easy to talk about, but how can I convince him to stop masturbating and watching porn, especially for 8 weeks, that might be a bit hard for a guy right?
Hi, ok its time for you both to take a sexual break, then to much of the same thing get boring for your brains and sences, your both young, try finding some books on foreplay and sexual postions and give them a good read why your taken a break, you may find it will recharge your batterys.
OK for him, porn and masterbating, so this sounds like he now has porn enduced ED, and needs to take an 8 week break from masterbating, sex and the porn has to go for good, some of this is down to what is done by the hand is remembered by the brain.
There was or is a very good magazine called Forum, see if you can find some of the really old ones, and these go back to the 1970s, so from then tell the 1980s were about the best if you can find some, lots of reading and you will find lots of answers.
Good Luck
i think it's not a physical issue the sex just lost a bit of it's mystery for both of you so try spicing things up a bit like role playing for example ...