Stoping masturbation for teens

[nottobeknown]

Hi, my name in this forum will be bob, for i dont want my name to be known, anyway, i have a masturbation problem, and i think the only way to help is to start from the begining, when i was 8, my mom was dating a man, this man let me play is computer, ik this sounds childish but please bear with me, one day i went to look up cheats for one of my games, i typed a wrong letter and i saw this, now known, porn site, not knowing what it was i clicked on it, at the time i ignored it after i saw it.
After 3 years i returned to this website cause i was tryin to remeber what it was, as i watched somw i started masturbating without thinking, and i have been hooked ever since.
I am now a 14 year old. I am still addicted, and want out. I have gotton viruses on my computer three times from going to these sites. And i want, no, i need out. It is ruining my relationship with family, friends, andeveryone else. I dont  care thats its normal, i just want out, i just did it yesterday, and cried myself to sleep about it. So dont, i repeat PLEASE dont say its normal. i would ask that you guys give ideas on how to stop. But before you do, please note i am looking for answers not religous, i have been trying that for 2 years and it only has gotton worse. PLEASE HELP, I AM BEGGING YOU!!!

[helpmeplease240]

To be honest with you, I believe you have a sex addiction. However, instead of it being intercourse, you masturbate instead. You shouldn't let this take over your life. There are many different sex groups that can help you with this type of situation where you meet and talk and do other related activities to help you stop the addiction of masturbation. It won't happen over night, but if you dedicate yourself to really stopping, you will be able to. Look up different sex groups that relate to your problem, or even psychologists and doctors that can help you. Seek support from your friends and family and remind yourself that you really dont have to do it. Occupy your time with other things like school, get a part time job, or sports or any other hobby. Just commit ! and Good Luck. Keep me posted on how you're doing from day to day.

[Rich99]

"I am still addicted, and want out"
   First of all,  porn sites are not healthy outlets anyway in the long run and yes you should break away from that habit.    You are isolating yourself from others.    As for masturbation,  you seem to associate this behavior with the viewing of the porn sites.    That might be the reason it is so upsetting.    Those are two totally separate activities.    So when you say "" It is ruining my relationship with family, friends, and everyone else."" you can see that all the time spent viewing those sites has taken away the time you should be spending with those you mentioned.    You need to go out with friends,   do other activities and change your daily routine.      And you must not fear that you are not normal.     If you cannot change that outlook,   you may need to seek therapy.