The breast question

[giraffe7983]

I'm not sure which forum to post this in, but is it rude to tell a woman she has nice breasts. This can be women I know or sometimes women I just run into during the day.

I saw a woman at a sandwich shop today and she had nice, big boobs. I couldn't help but notice. that's why I'm asking the question.

I've only told a woman that once before and she said, "Thank you" with a big smile. What you do think?

[CurleyGirl7]

Ha. True.
You hit "Report this" on the right side of the post and it deletes it.
Some people are just too sensitive.
: P

[katarina777]

Aside from the fact that you did not know Giraffe was a woman, and I was not so sure myself, your comment about what you would do was totally appropriate and should not have been erased. giraffe asked us about our opinions, and no matter if you were kidding or not, your opinion was quite acceptable. Every expression about this would be OK.

[katarina777]

I was wondering about this, as one of my comments on another post is also gone. I did not know they can just be deleted. Who is in charge of that?

[CurleyGirl7]

Wait....you're a woman?
I just looked at your profile and it says female.
That changes everything.
I have female friends who compliment me on my butt and boobs all the time.
It would be totally different if you were a guy, though.

[CurleyGirl7]

Oh comon....I was only joking.
There was no need to delete my post...
I would have edited it.
Geeze.

[katarina777]

You are welcome. the reason I said this is, because I thought about occasions when I have been complimented. There is one guy who is much older than I am and he is a massage guy and he always tells me how much he loves my breasts, and with him it really comes from the heart. i think he loves women and he loves breasts. actually, I know he does, and I love it when he tells me how he really thinks and feels. I also know he doesn't say that to all his clients because we have always had a very special relationship. yet, he is really professional and a really decent person. i can also think of others where I loved the feedback. but then there have been guys on the street, and they are usually from foreign countries, and who are very attracted to my red hair and they gross me out because they are rude and they think every woman here is available and the opposite is true where they come from. With women, or from women, i have only been pleased when they have made such remarks and again because it's real and not only coming from the penis compliment. and i myself am pretty open too when I recognize something special. for me actually, I have been more able to tolerate such compliments with better self-esteem rather than lower self-esteem. this stuff really upset me when I was a teenager and very shy and I did not feel attractive and I was a virgin. it's different now because i feel much better about myself in general. last, some people have this 'politically correct' attitude, that it is rude to compliment a woman about her body because it objectifies her. i on the other hand think that is such bull, and I sometimes really like when someone notices my body and finds me attractive. i don't mind the least being seen as an object, because usually what people appreciate about me is my soul, friendship and personality. So, for me the body compliment is rather special.

[giraffe7983]

Thanks Katarina for your opinion. Thanks for being non-violent with your response. :)

[katarina777]

Yeah, like everything else in life, it really depends on who says it, and how, and the timing of it.

[giraffe7983]

Thanks, Kitson. That does make sense. I guess you have to sense how the person is. Thanks for the response.

[kitson22]

I think that if the compliment is coming from another woman, it wouldn't necessarily be offensive.  Of course, you might want to feel things out and make sure that the other party is open to such brasin comments.  I've told girlfriends of mine that they have great breasts and they always seem happy to hear it.  Sooo I'd say go right ahead love!