My boyfriend is 47 and has troubled getting hard. We have been together 3 months and we care deeply for each other and he is committed to me in our relationship. The foreplay between us and the way he pleases me is incredible but doesn't get him hard at all. He's been checked out by his Dr and testerone and other items are normal. He is healthy, good weight, doesn't over indulge in alcohol but he is recently separated from his wife of 23 yrs and it has only been 8 months that they have been apart. Dr. gave him Viagara and it worked once , once he got hard without it, but when we try to be spontaneous he rarely can get hard which makes spontaneous love making out of the question. He wants very much to make love to me and tells me I excite him incredibly but it still doesn't get him hard. I have been single much longer and I enjoy sex very much and want this in my new relationship with him.
Could he have bad blood flow to his penis? Is it just emotional stress after being with the same woman for 23 yrs? Might he have a low sex drive? Do we just need more time together for him to be comfortable with both of us?
Can you offer any further solutions as we are both getting frustrated over this. He says how can I be so happy and in love with such a great woman yet can't get hard with her.
HELP!!