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Afraid to have sex for the first time
I want sex with my bf bt i am to much afrid.Want to knw how one feel while doing sex and is it to much painful?
Hi Goo, OK for sex education, and the answers to all the questions you would like to ask, but may be affraid to, just google dodson and ross, dodson she is called Dr Betty Dodson, they say she is the queen of orgasm's, she takes life one orgasm at a time, every thing you want to know in one place, how to masturbate for you and for him, you can download vids on techniques, plus more for a small charge.
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Good Luck
You can also find some great art work of betty's on there, go ahead enjoy your self, if you get lost on somethings on there just post betty.
Good Luck
After watching porn pic or sex chat.I feel to much pain in my stomach.y is dat pain n how can I get relif from it.plz help.
Precum is something that only guys make. Anything on your panties after you watch porn alone is dried vaginal discharge.
As for pleasing him, ask him what he likes. Ask him to masturbate in front of you, and then try to copy that. A lot of guys are pretty happy with whatever they get, and sex is enough to make them orgasm the vast majority of the time. For handjobs, the faster you go, the less pressure you should use, and lube is very helpful. For blowjobs, you don't need to deepthroat to please him. guys usually can't tell anyway. Most of their sensory nerves are on the head of the penis, so usually concentrating there is the way to go unless he says otherwise. You can put your hand around his shaft to extend the reach of your mouth, and then move your head up and down while doing the same with your hand. That move you probably can see in porn if the written description doesn't make sense. Since you have a gag reflex, trying to force a deep throat could make you puke, so don't do it if you're starting to gag. You can also take him into your cheek instead of the back of your throat. Your tongue can lick the head while your lips go around the shaft. Don't use teeth unless he asks you to. Some guys like their balls played with, others don't.
When it comes to sex, many guys like a lot of in and out motion. Some girls prefer more of a grinding motion. If you're on top, you can swivel your hips around and grind into him, which helps stimulate your clit as well. Most women cannot orgasm from sex alone. You can use a vibrator or finger your clit during sex, or he can play with your clit. Whatever feels good.
And it's not like I have this on a phone where it tells me instantly when someone replies. I'm also going to bed soon, so further questions might have to wait until tomorrow, although I will get to them.
As for pleasing him, ask him what he likes. Ask him to masturbate in front of you, and then try to copy that. A lot of guys are pretty happy with whatever they get, and sex is enough to make them orgasm the vast majority of the time. For handjobs, the faster you go, the less pressure you should use, and lube is very helpful. For blowjobs, you don't need to deepthroat to please him. guys usually can't tell anyway. Most of their sensory nerves are on the head of the penis, so usually concentrating there is the way to go unless he says otherwise. You can put your hand around his shaft to extend the reach of your mouth, and then move your head up and down while doing the same with your hand. That move you probably can see in porn if the written description doesn't make sense. Since you have a gag reflex, trying to force a deep throat could make you puke, so don't do it if you're starting to gag. You can also take him into your cheek instead of the back of your throat. Your tongue can lick the head while your lips go around the shaft. Don't use teeth unless he asks you to. Some guys like their balls played with, others don't.
When it comes to sex, many guys like a lot of in and out motion. Some girls prefer more of a grinding motion. If you're on top, you can swivel your hips around and grind into him, which helps stimulate your clit as well. Most women cannot orgasm from sex alone. You can use a vibrator or finger your clit during sex, or he can play with your clit. Whatever feels good.
And it's not like I have this on a phone where it tells me instantly when someone replies. I'm also going to bed soon, so further questions might have to wait until tomorrow, although I will get to them.
C u m (spelled that way to avoid the auto-censoring) is the thick white stuff that comes out when a guy orgasms and ejaculates. It's made up of several different types of fluids, and lots of sperm. Precum is a clear liquid that comes out when a guy is aroused, and helps with the lubricating process. It can have a very low concentration of sperm in it, so it is possible to get pregnant from it, even if he pulls out before ejaculating. Pulling out does work better than not pulling out, since c u m has more sperm in it by far, but the pill and condoms are more reliable.
The white powdered spots are probably dry discharge. You get wet while watching porn, it gets on your panties, and then dries. As long as it doesn't smell foul or fishy, there's nothing to worry about.
The white powdered spots are probably dry discharge. You get wet while watching porn, it gets on your panties, and then dries. As long as it doesn't smell foul or fishy, there's nothing to worry about.
When I watch porn pic.after some hrz some white powered spots are non my panty.whats dats dry spots?
Just make sure you're doing what YOU want to do. It's ok to want to please somebody because you care about them, but that's different from being pushed into it, and it's a distinction that many women forget to make.
I'm not quite sure what you mean by "response him". Do you mean you don't know how you should feel/be responding during sex chats, or you don't know how to please him/what kind of things to do to him? It would help if you typed things out a little more fully so that we don't respond to a different question than the one you asked.
It's worth it to take the time to masturbate a bit, so that you can find out what YOU like. If you're completely uncomfortable with touching your own body, you're most likely not ready for sex. Working up to it with handjobs, fingering, blow jobs, him going down on you, etc. would probably be a good idea. Make sure to use condoms, and consider getting on the pill as well. You can talk to your doctor about different types of birth control, especially if you think you'd have trouble taking a pill at the same time every day.
Don't base your sex off of porn. It's fine to try some things that they do if they look exciting, but porn is made to look good for the camera, and not necessarily to be fun for the actors. And most porn completely disregards the woman's pleasure, so the things they do there will most likely not get you off, and that's normal.
If you do decide to have sex, get some water or silicone based lube and use lots of it. Do not use oil, vaseline, crisco, or any other form of grease, as this degrades latex and may encourage the growth of some organisms. Using proper lube will help prevent any pain. If your hymen is still really intact (many women break theirs during sports well before losing their virginity), then it might tear and bleed a bit, and that might hurt the first time, but that doesn't have to happen. You should start on top the first time so that you can control the speed of entry. Make sure you have condoms, and that you know how to put them on properly. He needs to be completely hard, and you need to put it on so that it can roll down properly. If you start it the wrong way, you need a new one, otherwise you *could* get pregnant from the precum that's now on the outside of the condom. You need to pinch the tip to prevent it from bursting when he comes. Condoms are always a good idea both to prevent pregnancy and stds, and they also make cleanup easier. Just sayin'.
I can talk to you more about different birth control options if you want, or you can ask your ob/gyn. Some clinics have a dedicated counselor to talk to you about these things.
I'm not quite sure what you mean by "response him". Do you mean you don't know how you should feel/be responding during sex chats, or you don't know how to please him/what kind of things to do to him? It would help if you typed things out a little more fully so that we don't respond to a different question than the one you asked.
It's worth it to take the time to masturbate a bit, so that you can find out what YOU like. If you're completely uncomfortable with touching your own body, you're most likely not ready for sex. Working up to it with handjobs, fingering, blow jobs, him going down on you, etc. would probably be a good idea. Make sure to use condoms, and consider getting on the pill as well. You can talk to your doctor about different types of birth control, especially if you think you'd have trouble taking a pill at the same time every day.
Don't base your sex off of porn. It's fine to try some things that they do if they look exciting, but porn is made to look good for the camera, and not necessarily to be fun for the actors. And most porn completely disregards the woman's pleasure, so the things they do there will most likely not get you off, and that's normal.
If you do decide to have sex, get some water or silicone based lube and use lots of it. Do not use oil, vaseline, crisco, or any other form of grease, as this degrades latex and may encourage the growth of some organisms. Using proper lube will help prevent any pain. If your hymen is still really intact (many women break theirs during sports well before losing their virginity), then it might tear and bleed a bit, and that might hurt the first time, but that doesn't have to happen. You should start on top the first time so that you can control the speed of entry. Make sure you have condoms, and that you know how to put them on properly. He needs to be completely hard, and you need to put it on so that it can roll down properly. If you start it the wrong way, you need a new one, otherwise you *could* get pregnant from the precum that's now on the outside of the condom. You need to pinch the tip to prevent it from bursting when he comes. Condoms are always a good idea both to prevent pregnancy and stds, and they also make cleanup easier. Just sayin'.
I can talk to you more about different birth control options if you want, or you can ask your ob/gyn. Some clinics have a dedicated counselor to talk to you about these things.
Bt I want to do dat 4 his pleasure...
He says he feel so good with me.n he love me too much.he otfen do sex chat withbt I cnt response him well. I dnt know how to response him.
He says he feel so good with me.n he love me too much.he otfen do sex chat withbt I cnt response him well. I dnt know how to response him.
I m 19 n my is 23.
I have knw nothng about sex. Bt I love to watch porn picts.watchng picts make me so exicted.I feel thirsty.n cnt stop my self watching pic.
I have knw nothng about sex. Bt I love to watch porn picts.watchng picts make me so exicted.I feel thirsty.n cnt stop my self watching pic.
I agree with the above that knowing your age would help, although plenty of young people have sex regardless. You sound like you need some more sex ed, though, so please ask any and all questions you have about safe sex and pregnancy prevention first. Scarleteen has lots of info for teenagers about safe sexual relationships, and I urge you to check that out as well.
And no, sex shouldn't hurt. If you don't feel ready, don't do it. You can always do it later, but you can't undo it after the fact. And anyone who tells you that if you loved them you'd have sex with them is not worth it. You are the one who gets to make decisions about your body, and don't let anyone else make you forget that. So if you're scared, don't do it right now.
And no, sex shouldn't hurt. If you don't feel ready, don't do it. You can always do it later, but you can't undo it after the fact. And anyone who tells you that if you loved them you'd have sex with them is not worth it. You are the one who gets to make decisions about your body, and don't let anyone else make you forget that. So if you're scared, don't do it right now.
Hi Goo, Your question is a big one, But as blue has said it would be so nice to know your age, and how much do you know about sex.
Thers lots you need to know, and theres lots we could tell you, theres safe sex, and thats a big must do and know how to.
But please come back
Thers lots you need to know, and theres lots we could tell you, theres safe sex, and thats a big must do and know how to.
But please come back
Hi Zargoo! :) How old are you and your bf? I hesitate to answer your question because if you are very young, then not only is sex inappropriate, it can also be dangerous for someone who is not completely sexually educated. And I wonder why your parents and/or your school have not taught you these things already? - Blu
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STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Discharge often isn't normal, and could mean an infection or an STD.
STDs aren't transmitted through clothing. Fabric is a germ barrier.
Normal vaginal discharge varies in color, smell, texture and amount.
