trust me all of these people will hepl you thouth this
No problem.
Sorry this thread kinda turned into an all out war....
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thanks Curley , ur comments have really helped me to relae ,iam trying to get rid off these anal insertions , iknow i am a compete an , now i kow i am not becoming gay ...
I second that motion!
*raises hand*
Wow this mr.lucky66 has some serious malfunctions. Hard core porn, made by criminals for criminals. Really truly, come on mate you cant really believe that. I mean I can understand if you’re just some lonely guy trying to cause some trouble, just own up. And who knows maybe you can make some friends.
My beliefs have nothing to do with you. I didn't say you were a republican, but that would make sense.
You are entitled to your beliefs, but not to be nasty to people who believe in something different.
I thought you said you weren't going to talk anymore?!
God? do you even believe in him? No I'm not a republican, just someone who has seen the destructive effects of hard core porn and how drugs like crack perpetuate this garbage. I'll be around and you can once again defend porn.
Cocaine and porn are fast friends and have been for a long time. If you don't know this then I don't think you know much about either. That's all I have to say on this subject, bye
hard core porn is not linked to drug usage. i have never seen them smoking, snorting or shooting up and then saying 'alright, let's get this act started...' neither has my husband that has seen a gazillion more porn scenes than me. that's absurd. you and your friend are alone in this
how on earth do you rationalize saying that cocaine and porn go together based off of ONE person you heard of experiences?
i don't think about drugs in any shape, form, or fashion at any point of my life no matter what. not when i'm broke, sick, depressed -nothing. haven't you got enough sense to see that people always blame everything else for their problems (didn't have a father, didn't have money, the porn made me do it)??? come on now mr. lucky
That experience is very rare in prisons. I know and talked been friends with many men who have been in prison. Most of them never were involved in any rapes or were raped, it does happen though. Studies have been done on violent sexual prisoners and most of them say hard core porn was the beginning of a life of violence and rape. hard core porn, made by criminals for criminals
If violence in porn is responsible for rapists, then you'd have to fight the entire movie industry. You usually can NEVER find a movie that doesn't have some sort of violence in it. Even a show like Spongebob has violence in it!
Anything can become addicting. People with poor self control and depression can get addicted to ANTHING....porn, cigarettes, alcohol, ect...
Have you even been in prison? My uncle recently was released, and he changed. He was quiet and not interested in sex with his wife anymore. Apparently he had been gang raped in prison, and now the only way he could get 'excited' is when he was being held down. The trauma really changed him, and now he is completely different. He told me that in order to stay alive, you have to rape people in prison. I know it sounds bad, but it's true. You earn respect and control. If anything is to blame for violent porn, it is the prison systems...they're traumatizing people into rape!
I talking about hard core porn, not playboy or something similar. I never patronised any of it. Hard core porn is how most rapists and other sexual criminals got going. The biggest comsumers of hard core are criminals in and out of jail. You should all be pround to defend it.
Most anti-porn obsessed people are just like those who are anti-gay obsessed. They suffer from what they project that they hate or fear.
So we can assume mr.lucky66 most likely has some issues he should deal with before telling others what to do.
Porn can be ok. Porn can be damaging. Depends on the persons reception to it. If watching porn makes you want to do things, you feel you shouldn't be doing, you might want to lay off the porn for a while.
Some people can drink a beer and have no problem. Others become alcoholics for life. It is with anything. Porn is no exception.
Regarding the drugs and porn... it depends on the situation honestly.. my husband was never into any other drugs than pot and that was before getting with me and getting married.
he just got stuck on porn.
it depends on the situation, however I think MOST porn is wrong...(unless it is done to enhance a relationship and both parties are comfortable with things.)
"Cocaine and Porn go hand in hand" ??? is that what the world is doing, cocaine and porn? boy, is my husband gonna get it now!!!
LOL whatever. this was a funny thread. good night everybody
and I think you are alone in defending porn. There is a direct connection between all addictions, tabacco, drugs and porn. The case of my friend I know well. He told me that the porn made him want cocaine and also that other times when he smoked crack he wanted porn. hard core porn, made by criminals for criminals
Porn and cocaine? I think you're ON cocaine! Just because someone watched porn and then fell off the wagon doesn't mean porn is to blame! He could have been dumped by a girlfriend or had some other trauma in his life that caused him to seek comfort in drugs! You say you've seen this happen a lot of times...I think you need to find new friends, it seems like they're all drug addicts.
I admit, you make good points. But saying that porn and drugs are always together isn't true. An old high school friend of mine is in the porn business and she says that they are given random drug tests and STD tests every week to make sure they are clean. There is a HUGE difference between underground hardcore porn and major label porn. I think all you are finding is the underground porn, and it does affect people. It's dark and grungy...icky.
You're using stereotypes and prejudice. That's not cool.
i just wanted to say.... i like porn. BUT.... like Curleygirl said.... its all about the moderation.
I want to clarify on my prior post. Since the porn issue in my marriage has been fixed. I have become more open to watching movies that would be classified as soft core porn. Basically it's a movie with a storyline and lots of sex. The times we've watched it we wind up laughing about how they look like bunnies and then turn it off for some actual real life play!
Mr. Lucky- I agree w/your post on this topic... even if I dont' agree with some posts on other ones. , the majority of men DO overdo porn and there's a fine line between whats ok and whats too much. I think that line comes when it interferes with your thought processes, sex life, and relationships. If a man can watch porn without having it interfere like that, and can manage a great relationship with a woman (or man....) AND not have to watch it just to get off (I've heard of this!) then it's alright for the most part.
Romeo and Braveheart are not Porn I'm talking about hard core porn that have proven to perpetuate crime. I never had a porn problem but I once knew a guy was was a recovering crack addict. Cocaine and Porn go hand in hand. He had been drug free for several months and he went to a porn shop and started watching those movies or whatever they are. Next thing he was smoking crack and lost everything. I have seen this happen many times. Hard core porn, made by criminals for criminals.
No. You need to stop being so negative. Porn is alright in MODERATION. Too much of anything is bad.
I can see by the agressive strike back that either you, or someone you know, has been addicted to porn.
Some people think pornography is an art, just like any other movie. Just because it features 2 people having sex doesn't mean that it's made by criminals. I guess you might think that any movie that has nudity in it is made by criminals. So I guess that you think that such classics like Romeo and Juliet, Braveheart, and The Passion of the Christ were all made by a criminals.
Nice.
this advise curley is very generic and predictable. Most people do overdo porn and it causes a lot of pain and affects other people's lifes as well as the one who is addicted to it. Porn, made by Criminals for Criminals.
Porn is nothing bad. If you overdo it, it can become a problem, though.
You are not gay. Some men that I know do anal insertions because it helps them achieve ejaculation. The prostate is stiumlated during anal sex on a man, so it can cause for hightened sensitivity and increased pleasure.
I think you are adicted to the feeling of pleasure that comes with anal insertion. Try fighting the urge to see if that helps you. Try looking at vaginal/oral porn and see if it might help you slowly not insert things.
Mind over body.