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cant orgasm during sex..
I can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation and even when i do it during sex it doesnt work. This isnt exactly a pregnancy question but it definately puts a strain on my relationship. My bf thinks its his fault and gets kinda mad that he cant get me off, but idk what else i can do! We bought lube and a vibrator and nothi ng. I think its cuz i watch porn when im alone and need the visual (cant see nothin with this huge tummy and his faces dont do it...) idk what to do he gets mad and he can definately tell im dissapointed when he is finished and im not. Plus then he goes straight to sleep and im like hmmm... now what?
Just read the second comment lol so if I stop watching it & masturbating for a long time it'll get back to normal? Cause he's kind of questioned it but I say idk it just happens that way lol he doesn't know I do it on a regular basis though.
I've always had this problem, until...I closed my eyes, and turned myself on in my mind, thinking about what I personally like and it worked...think of the way you look when doing the do..think about him penetrating you..or whatever turns you on..being quiet is key..don't moan constantly because then you'll not be able to focus. Just like men have to focus when receiving oral sex, we have to focus just having sex. You can also yet to masturbate for foreplay, involving sex at a very slow speed. Think one Mississippi, two Mississippi..remember it's all about focus..I was surprised at how it worked, thought I'd be frustrated forever. It doesn't happen every time but even it does..boy I tell ya. Another thing that worked great for me is having him literally go in and out..tease. just put the head in and tease. It'll take time to find what works but keep me posted, I'll try my hardest to help because I know how it feels! Good luck :)
I have the same problem, he always gets off before me so afterwards I have to rub myself & he has to keep going after he's finished just so I can finish too if not it never happens :/ I feel bad, it's not that he ***** I think I may be cause I watch porn when im alone too & it's become a habit for a few years now lol I feel bad..
Have you suggested watching porn with yoir boyfriend? Does he go down on you at all? I think maybe combining these two ideas could advantageous.
Tmi but when you watch porn do you masturbate? Cause if you do knowing from experience if you masturbate to much your body tends to get used to it and then when you have intercourse you can't get off as easy or at all:(
Are you pregnant? Cause if you are its your hormones and there's nothing you can do and your boyfriend needs to understand that. if your not then try experimenting or trying out different kinks.
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