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ok so I am a lesbian and when my girlfriend and i have sex it hurts her.... I'm use to rough sex and i know she isnt so i try to be really soft with her, but 80% of the time she tells me to stop..... and she never gets off and I do..... what can i do to make her feel more comforterable.....
I agree that she should be able to tell you what it is that she likes. That is the only way to get her to enjoy it is to get her actively involved in her own pleasures.
I am confused what hurts her? Are you using toys? Perhaps if you put the toys away and have just eachother to softly explore eachothers bodies and what feels best before re-introducing toys! Good luck I hope you both can enjoy your sexlife?
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