Ive only been with 2 men and with my first I usually never had any problems having a climax pretty fast although sometimes I took long when we were having relationship problems, specially at the end of the road it happened a lot, but I usually took less time. With my second and current bf I take too long, and he waits but we both get very tired and he has performance anxiety and by me waiting too long well sometimes the erection goes away a little bit but not completely. I just don't want this to continue, what can I do that can make me come faster?? we don't have any problemas outside the bedroom, maybe insecurities or my fears , since with my ex the relationship was troublesome and hurtful, but I have been dealing with my trust issues and my bf has helped me a lot, and he doesnt pressure me at all , but I pressure myself , now its going great and I just want to improve sexually, for me and him.