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how can I orgasm faster??

Ive only been with 2 men and with my first I usually never had any problems having a climax pretty fast although sometimes I took long when we were having relationship problems, specially at the end of the road it happened a lot, but I usually took less time. With my second and current bf I take too long, and he waits but we both get very tired and he has performance anxiety and by me waiting too long well sometimes the erection goes away a little bit but not completely. I just don't want this to continue, what can I do that can make me come faster?? we don't have any problemas outside the bedroom, maybe insecurities or my fears , since with my ex the relationship was troublesome and hurtful, but I have been dealing with my trust issues and my bf has helped me a lot, and he doesnt pressure me at all , but I pressure myself ,  now its going great and I just want to improve sexually, for me and him.
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Thank you very much!!!
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Try making him do oral or rubbing on clerics this shall improve gaveing organsm
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I would say to try taking the pressure off of yourself. Hopefully you will trust this person who is trying to help you and cares for you. Not all men are like your ex. I would trust him unless he did something to make you not trust him.
Once your feeling better about things I think everything else will fall into place. Don't over analyze things... Wishing you the best in your current relationship!
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