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900122 tn?1245704141

is this wrong???

first i am young and don't have a boyfriend i feel empty ans alone i masterbate and i am trying to stop i am female and i have two friends with the same problem i think its crazy i stop then start then stop then start i have tried to stop it makes me feel guilty becuz i am a big christian it makes me feel like less of a person and i hate that i feel bad this is my first step to takin advice and trying to fight back please help if you can someone
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hi this is kortney:It's different for boys than it is for girls. It's not dirty, it's natural. It's a good idea to explore your body and genitals, so you know how your body works. Also, if you don't want to have sex right away, it's a good way to get pleasure without having intercourse. if you masturbate, it doesn't mean you're not a virgin anymore, or that you are a bad person.  i hope that hope that helps....
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masturbation is not wrong but in small doses. Doing it all the time will only make you bored and will not be able to enjoy it with ur partner later in life.
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There is nothing wrong with masturbating dear, There is a difference between being a christian and being religious, you see being a christian encompass the principals Jesus set for us, Jesus never said not to masturbate, now did he? If you feel the urge to masturbate, and resist it you will only want it more, and you will be more likely to have sex that you will regret later, look at it this way, you are a chocoholic, there is a bowl of chocolates on the desk your sitting at, you can have a little each day and be satisfied, its not going to affect your health, your not going to go to hell for it, it just will give you pleasure and release and make you feel a little better, on the other hand, you don't allow yourself the pleasure of any chocolate ever, your desire becomes so great that you go out and binge on a pint of chocolate ice cream, and all that sugar gives you a belly ache that lasts all night. Hun don't deny yourself a little pleasure now and then, its not wrong to masturbate. In fact its very healthy to do so.
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