I have a really hard time reaching an orgasm, and I have a VERY hard time during sex, you may be like me and only be able to orgasm via clitoral stimulation. If you can find a way to make yourself orgasm I would do it fairly often too, they've proven that the more you orgasm the easier it is.
Warning: It can be kinda hard to lose control the first few times.
actually ive read alot of women dont get orgasm maybe looking into different position can help sex enhancers for pleasure like ky nothing wrong with doing research trying new things thats what the world is about they have different types of condoms that do unusal things experimenting is key
agreed to frankj93. your husband should also take interest to give you Orgasim. you should masturbate often also fantcize your sexual position, whatever makes you hot. I took responsibilty to give my partner fun, Orgasim during sex.
Try masturbating yourself to orgasm. Then teach your husband how to do it. Then have him try it orally. Good luck.