Hi, not nowing your age, but you could try some DHEA, its a hormon that both men and women share, its will boost your testosterone, lift your libido and kick your energy levels, but please read up about it first before you take, reson it can have the odd funny side effect with the odd person, ans as for getting an orgasm, it s well known fact that not all women can have them and that many women lose them after child birth, but some do get them back, but only after many years.
Do hope this helps.
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First rule out any medical issues. To increase libido for woman, Female deer exercise is recommended.Google the words'female deer exercise ' You can add kegel exercises as well. Try to learn postures in which you clitoris is rubbed by the dorsal region of his penis.lYou can massage your thighs to stimulate your desire. You may dip your fingers in perineum and massage it.if you do these excises regularly, you will get result in one month.
This started two years before i got pregnant
I think your nickname says it all "newmom" that's the thing with having babies - your physiology has been changed temporarily. it may return to "normal", but now normal will always be different that it was before a baby was born