i see where your coming from,its like a top up,it used to worry me as he took it before he went to work so i thought he was having an affair but i no he is not,,its a man thing and they dont liketalking about it
I think the very best thing to do in a good relationship is to not wonder but to open up dialogue. What does HE say about this?
Perhaps he feels incompetent. Its like having big breasts but getting a boob job anyways, you do not need it but it makes you feel better.
Anna
Maybe he just wants to be ready in case he's "surprised"...what do you think?