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hello umm im 16 yrs old nd im a virgin my ex bf in the past have tried to have sex wid me buh im realy sacred cuz all my frends claim it hurts dramatically and they bleed. i really dunt understand why when women do it why it bleeds nd why it hurts can sum 1 please explain it to me in a way a 16 yr wud understand y it hurts nd y it bleeds than yuh very much
If you're scared, you're not ready. It's as simple as that.
For me, it hurt the first few times, and I bled the first few times. The reason we do it is because sex is a natural part of our lives, and because we know the pain and the bleeding will go away. I was 17 when I lost my virginity, and I did it because I love my boyfriend and I felt ready to take that next step. We're still together almost four years later, and it no longer hurts (unless he's too rough).
If you can't understand why girls would do it, you're not ready. Be an active 16 year old... Go out with friends, date guys, but don't have sex until you're ready for the commitment.
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For me, it hurt the first few times, and I bled the first few times. The reason we do it is because sex is a natural part of our lives, and because we know the pain and the bleeding will go away. I was 17 when I lost my virginity, and I did it because I love my boyfriend and I felt ready to take that next step. We're still together almost four years later, and it no longer hurts (unless he's too rough).
If you can't understand why girls would do it, you're not ready. Be an active 16 year old... Go out with friends, date guys, but don't have sex until you're ready for the commitment.
:)
dont do it then if youre scared. not only that, youre much too young to be bothered about sex anyway. enjoy more fun dates, hugs, kisses, love letters, and endless long phone calls before you attempt grown up things.
o men im so scared i wanna try buh im so scared with th whole cherry pop nd the whole thin wid it hurting like a knifeee up dere i wanna do it buh i dunt wanna feel so much pain that i will regret it
well it did hurt. It resembled the feeling of a knife going in that area. But, after the hymen( the thin sheath of tissue partially covering the vaginal passage that gets broken and can bleed a little or not) breaks, it gets better with time. The vagina kind of stretches with each time and isnt so uncomfortable after awhile. thats the best I can explain it for you
i doesnt hurt that bad the first time. for most girls that i kno it kinda hurts at the start but feels so much better after he gets it in. and hardly any girls bleed nowadays. if they are talking about getting their cherry poped. most "cherries" are poped before girls loose their virginity anyways by tampons, sports can do it, awhole mess of other thigns, and even when that happens its not like a lot of blood, its just a little bit. the first time i had sex i didnt bleed. actually i cant ever remember bleeding from sex
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