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yellow crusty stain in underwear
fount dried yellow crusty stain in husband underwear in the front. size of a 50 cent piece. had a smell to it as well. could that be a sex stain
It could have been pre-ejaculation or urine or both. There's really no way to find out for sure. I think the more important issue is the fact that you feel the need to inspect his underwear. I'm not judging- it's just that I've been through that before- scrutinizing laundry, going through wallet/pockets, checking cell phone and bills, etc etc. It really is a miserable way to live- it just destroys your self esteem and makes you a constant nervous wreck.
If your husband has not done anything to make you suspect that he is cheating, you probably need to figure out why you're so suspicious. Go see a counselor or, if he's cheated in the past and you can't get over it, a marriage counselor.
If he has done things that really seem like he's being unfaithful, you have a few choices.
A) Decide to let it go because you're not ready to leave him even if he is cheating- "turn the other cheek". I couldn't do that myself- few people can.
B) Become a self made detective. As well as the basic stuff listed above, hack into his email accounts or get software that traks his keystrokes, question him in tricky ways so that he might slip up, and even borrow friend's car and follow him for a day. Hire a real detective if you have the $$. If he's cheating, you will catch him if you keep alert. I caught my 2nd husband by finding an email account he thought I'd never find- that led me to his online dating profile, which led to me kicking his lying @ss out. Best move I ever made :) .
C) Take a good long look at whether it's worth it to go through all that obsessing and checking up. Unless you have a jealousy problem, if you think he's cheating, he probably is. It's hard to end a marriage, but believe me, you will be better off in the long run if this guy is giving you reason to worry so much.
Good luck- listen to your instincts.
If your husband has not done anything to make you suspect that he is cheating, you probably need to figure out why you're so suspicious. Go see a counselor or, if he's cheated in the past and you can't get over it, a marriage counselor.
If he has done things that really seem like he's being unfaithful, you have a few choices.
A) Decide to let it go because you're not ready to leave him even if he is cheating- "turn the other cheek". I couldn't do that myself- few people can.
B) Become a self made detective. As well as the basic stuff listed above, hack into his email accounts or get software that traks his keystrokes, question him in tricky ways so that he might slip up, and even borrow friend's car and follow him for a day. Hire a real detective if you have the $$. If he's cheating, you will catch him if you keep alert. I caught my 2nd husband by finding an email account he thought I'd never find- that led me to his online dating profile, which led to me kicking his lying @ss out. Best move I ever made :) .
C) Take a good long look at whether it's worth it to go through all that obsessing and checking up. Unless you have a jealousy problem, if you think he's cheating, he probably is. It's hard to end a marriage, but believe me, you will be better off in the long run if this guy is giving you reason to worry so much.
Good luck- listen to your instincts.
wow, I would really hate to think that my spouse would actually pick up my undies and smell them... How would you feel if you walked in and he was smelling your underwear... I'm pretty sure you've had crusty spots in yours at some time or other... If you think he's having an affair that's a different story... but, if this is his only fault I think I would drop it...
EVERY man has pre-ejaculation. That's just something that happens. It could be a urine stain, but it's not likely to crusty. He could have an infection or something, but most likely it is pre-ejaculation. Sounds form what you're saying that you don't trust your husband. Is this stain you seen the only you have to not trust him? Men when they get an erection can just release pre'ejaculation and not even notice it.
he told me it was a urine stain. the next day he told me that it was from him getting up and down. but the thing is he dont pre ***.. he has never pre cummed. what could that be.. a sex stain
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