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1028452 tn?1537448484

What does love mean?

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all even when his hands got arthritis, too. That's Love."
Rebecca - age 8

When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."
Billy - age 4

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."
Karl - age 5

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French Fries without making them give you any of theirs."
Chrissy - age 6

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
Terri - age 4

"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."
Danny - age 7

"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss."
Emily - age 8

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."
Nikka - age 6

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears iteveryday."
Noelle - age 7

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well."
Tommy - age 6

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."
Cindy - age 8

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."
Clare - age 6

"Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."
Elaine-age 5

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."
Chris - age 7

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."
Mary Ann - age 4

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her oldclothes and has to go out and buy new ones."
Lauren - age 4

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you"
Karen - age 7

"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."
Mark - age 6

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
Jessica - age 8

And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. (Now this will melt your heart.) The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked him what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry."
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139792 tn?1498585650
Thanks. Always ready and alert!
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You just affirmed what was said by what you just said...lol!

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139792 tn?1498585650
Everyone has said everything worth saying. What should I say?
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1028452 tn?1537448484
Right
I know that story.....lol
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1028452 tn?1537448484
I agree

Correcting primary Training systems might help to have a better society
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1028452 tn?1537448484
childhood is a treasure and we shouldn't let it die, I think
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1028452 tn?1537448484
A lot of  Thanks to everybody for your lovely comments on " love "
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I can "sigh" and say "ah" with you.  I find it interesting that in the Bible it says:  Unless you become like little children, you shall not enter into the Kingdom of God.

Please don't tell me that someone added that in there...lol!

It is something how as children we can be in such a hurry to grow up and then as an adult think back to the days where it was simpler in so many ways with all the wonder and possibilities.

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455167 tn?1259257871
To be a child again. To start over. If there is a dream more precious, I can't think of it. A world of dreams and endless possibilities. The child in all of us longs for such things. Therin lies heaven on earth. GM
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Hard not to smile at what the children say about love.  Children forgive so much easier.  They have less clutter to move out of the way.  In the Emperor's New Clothes, it was a child that saw that the King was naked...lol!
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455167 tn?1259257871
Yes, I think it is because they have not been corrupted by the chaos that pervades this world. They are not limited by preconceptions, but rather guided by their observations. GM
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908392 tn?1316522899
Aww this was sweet. I laughed at some of them too...

Love is soo deep.. its hard to answer that question but through the eyes of a child we see how they see love. It's refreshing. Adults sometimes have a bad view on love and children do not. :)
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1028452 tn?1537448484
May be because they are so pure and clean
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455167 tn?1259257871
This is great. Kids seem to have a much deeper understanding of such things, and even though they may have simple answers, they can be the most profound. GM
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