Hi there,
I was looking on the internet for any information about Hemorrhagic Strokes, and I came across this website, and after reading a few of the forums so far I am very glad I did.
On the 5th of March 2011 after calling my 42 year old Mother for a few hours I became worried and went around to her house and luckily had a key and found her unresponsive but with eyes open lying in her hallway surrounded by vomit. I immediately called the ambulance and went with her to the hospital. soon after we arrived I was advised that mum had had a brain aneurysm that had ruptured, resulting in a Stroke. She then had the aneurysm "coiled" and when she returned to the ICU she had a shunt in her head and was on life support.
My Mum was then on life support in the ICU for a little over a week, but was then taken off all of the breathing tubes and is now breathing on her own. She remained in the ICU until 3 days ago. She is able to move her right arm well, a little bit of movement with her left arm, she can't hold her head up and has no movement in her legs as yet. She can respond with "yes" and "no" ( on rare occasions and after a lot of repeating the question ), but has randomly answered our questions with 2-3 word sentences.
Through my personal investigations (the time between her last phone call that she had on her mobile, to the first missed call from me, to the time I found her) I've found there is a window of 3 and a half hours. So she obviously didn't receive early medical assistance after collapsing.
Mum looks as though she is there one minute with us and then gone the next. It is heartbreaking as she was the fittest person I know, who spent every spare moment with my 2 year old daughter and who was only a few short weeks ago helping me prepare for my 2nd child which is due now in just 3 short weeks.
As I have no one to ask these silly questions in my day to day life, I'm hoping that someone out there can answer me with your opinion or experiences... :)
* The large gap between mum collapsing and receiving medical help would have contributed to the amount of brain damage she has now wouldn't it?
* Is there anything I can do to help Mum along in her recovery?
* And is there ever a full recovery after something like this?
I'm just desperate to do anything I can to help her, and selfishly I guess, I'm just desperate to get my Mum back.
Thank you for your time :)