My baby died and i need hope!

[misskriss]

Hi everyone i have only just joined tonight.  I lost my beautiful daughter at 3 1/2 months in November which shattered my world.  Then 2 weeks ago i found out i was pregnant again then miscarried last week.  I really need to know that other people have continued to life life and not just give up, lay down and die?

[ksade08]

Hi, i'm not going to pretend i know how hard it is to lose a child, but i do know how it feels to lose someone you dearly care about and i know it is hard. i was just wondering how many of you lost your child to S.I.D.S

[saza100]

hi my sympathy goes out to you i lost my son to cot death aged 6 months in june 2001 i was devastated felt there was no hope went through the what ifs life does go on you need to talk it helps loads i now have 2 beautiful boys and 6 weeks pregnant and going for a scan next week as i have been bleeding .with my children i asked to be put on the coni scheme (care of next infant) you see a consultant that speacialises in sids a health visitor visits every week i am provided with a mr10 monitor which simply attaches to babys belly and if they stop breathing an alarm goes off i wouldnt be without this if u want to chat email i dont mind i know how u feel

[MOMMY2BE85]

HI,I JUST SIGNED ON TO THIS SITE TODAY AND I CAME ACROSS YOUR MESSASGE, AND I CAN HONESTLY SAY I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THRU. I LOST MY DAUGHTER AUG 11TH 2007 DUE TO SIDS.SHE WAS 3MONTHS. I WAS ONLY 21 WHEN IT HAPPENED AND I NEVER IN MY LIFE LOST ANYONE.I HAD TO GO TO COUNCILING. I BELEIVE IT HELPED ME A GREAT DEAL.MY HEART AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU.

[Spartakos]

Hi, my twins was born early in 28 weeks of my wife pregnancy in 15 May 2008, Spartakos 1100 gr and Kostantinos 900 gr, they had problems from day one because they were very wick and except the medications we couldn't do anything for them.
After 7 days yesterday 22/05 Kostantinos at 09:00 hours had a sudden inward bleeding all over his bobby and he pass away at 13:05.
Spartakos is still fighting....please pray for my baby, I don’t know what I will do if I will lose him too.

[jem706]

my heart really goes out to you. but i know that God would give you grace and comfort. one of the most painful experiences in life is to loose a child of your own. i lost mine too in march last year and it still gets to me till date. but i have being comforted by God. i know you will be faced with crying sometimes pls allow the tears to flow it will heal you. also meet people who have had the same experiences they would really help you. pray a lot it would really be a source of comfort.

[Spazzswife]

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my daughter to SIDS 16 years ago when she was 4 months. It was a very difficult thing to say the least. It takes so long to recover. If you hold in the greif it will come out in different areas of you life. I did some other things that really helped me. If you would like to email me Id be happy to talk to you. ***@****