im i just paranoid?

[cupcakeqween15]

well me and my boyfriend have been dating for nine months and we starting doing stuff about 4 months into the relationship. he has fingered me mulitple times and i have given him oral sex. everytime he touches me down there when its over i get so paranoid and think the worst. is there any chance i could get anything from this. weve decided to quite doing it recently but i still wanna know if id be ok if i choose to do it again.   thanks

[natalie_xx]

Hi, don't worry. You cant get pregnant by giving a person a handjob or a blowjob. To get pregnant, sperm needs to enter the vagina (however there is a small, small chance of pregnancy if sperm is on the outside of the vagina). The most important thing to remember is to always wear a condom during oral sex and sex to stop transmission of STD's or pregnancy.  

Look after your body and it will look affter you.

[Bek14]

Im also worried about that kind of thing, me and my boyfriend have never had sex he hasn't even been inside my pants but i have given him oral sex. Although its great fun etc. im so terrified that i might get pregnant is it at all possible for me to get pregnant when all i do is give him handjobs?
im just worried somehow sperm might get inside me....please help someone

[gemstone89]

hey
Don't worry too much about fingering, and if you are just make sure he washes his hands beforehand
There can be an issue with oral sex, but to avoid this just use a condom,
It sounds a bit weird to do so but 1/ its a hell of a lot more hygenic and 2/ you can get flavored ones these days so it could be quite fun! And it will make your role a bit more enjoyable! (your bf shouldnt really care cos he will still get oral)
If your still worried just talk to the doctor

[K1990]

You can go in and get checked for STD's, it might not be a bad thing to do!

[Bryanle1988]

no, there is no STD's or HIV doing finger..
but oral sex can cuase STD's but Super low chance in HIV(1 to 10000000)
use condom